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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Frozen - so glad scan showed all was ok x

    Elephant - congrats on being PUPO, really hope time doesn't drag too much for you and try not to worry about cramps as all normal, though I realise it's hard not to worry, try to relax as much as poss. Fingers crossed for you.
  • TamVilla80
    TamVilla80 Posts: 588 Forumite
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    Glad all was ok Frozen, and a little flutter too, how exciting!

    Nothing exciting to report here, just feeling a little disheartened tbh. Need to lose a few more lb before going back to the clinic but it's just not happening. We are off this week, done some jobs and are going to the family caravan in North Wales for a few days tomorrow. Hopefully a bit of seaside air will give us a refresh, really looking forward to the break. First holiday with the pup, so really looking forward to getting her on the beach and seeing her run around, it's really sad how much we love our furry baby!
  • IVF/ICSI/IUI/FET cycles currently ongoing
    • ElephantLovesMe: IVF LP. DR sniffer (Buserelin) 7/4. Scan 21/4 & 27/4. Noresthisterone 27/4. Scan 12/5. Stims 15/5 (Bemfola 75iu), 22/5 (Bemfola 50iu). EC 26/5, 7 eggs collected, 6 fertilised. 1 x 5d ET 31/5 fingersx.gif
    • Floaty: Medicated FET. Endo Scratch 20/5. DR injections (Buserelin) 20/5. Scan 4/6.
    • skaps: Natural FET - to start as soon as AF arrives

    Ovulation induction
    cwtw: Three rounds of ovulation induction by injections. Diagnosed with hypothyroidism, all IF treatment suspended until normal blood test results.
    lauraw82: Appointment 12/11, Clomid for 4 cycles, last Clomid cycle postponed til after holiday


    Awaiting FS/other appointment or making alternative plans
    159: Waiting for OH's tests
    claretsgirl: Trying naturally
    chocoholic_chick: IVF LP. DR injections (Buserelin) 2/3. Stims (100iu Gonal-F) 25/3, (125iu Gonal-F) 31/3. EC 8/4, 17 eggs collected, 10 fertilised. ET postponed, 4 amazing blasts in the freezer. Appointment 1/6 to start FET.
    cyantist: Trying naturally and doing blood tests and DH sample
    Fairy dust: Investigating a clinic in the Czech Republic, follow up appointment 23/6
    Flee: ICSI
    GlasweJen: Accepted into a group for a mitochondrial transplant, EC & ET hopefully at the end of 2015
    Gelly123: Blood tests for chromosome testing - clear
    Goodvibes: ICSI 2=chemical. ICSI 3= 2015, follow up appointment Jan 2015
    Isla_red: Further treatment Jan 2015
    lisawood78: Filling in forms for embryo adoption in Spain
    lucyloves: IUI mid April
    mogwai: Checking for ovulation and trying naturally
    Picklekin: Approved to proceed to stage 1 in the adoption process
    pinkteapot: Trying naturally and considering options
    Primmer: Adoption panel 19/11 - they said yes!
    shrimpy_80: Surgery (3 ops) 9/6, IVF delayed for 6 months til after the operations
    TamVilla80: Metformin for 2 months then starting on Clomid
    Think Pink: Trying the NTNP approach for 6 months
    vesper: Referred for IVF


    Team wonderbra (lovely and supportive aunties)
    codemonkey
    tea lover


    Recent graduates

    • frozenpenguin: Medicated FET. Provera 17/3. DR sniffer (Buserelin) 19/3. Oestrogen (Progynova) 5/4. Scan 16/4 & 23/4. Progesterone (Cyclogest) 26/4. 1x5dET with EmbryoGlue 1/5.bfp.gif 15/5/15
    • nightsky224: Natural bfp.gif 20/3/15
    • emmaj30: IVF. Stims 18/1. EC 29/1. 1 x 5d ET 3/2. bfp.gif 16/2/15
    • Wonder_Woman: IVF round #3 with immune meds. bfp.gif 2/2/15
    • Clevernamehere: Natural bfp.gif 28/10/14
    • jazz25: Clomid. bfp.gif 16/10/14
    • Gettingthereslowly: Medicated FET. Oestrogen (Progynova). Scan 12/9. 2 x ET 17/9. bfp.gif 1/10/14

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  • Hope you have a lovely little holiday Tam! I do like North Wales, I have family on the north east side and my parents always go on holiday to Anglesey every Easter and we tag along for a free trip :) Such a nice area and beautiful coastline. xx


    Good luck tomorrow with your scan floaty as well! xx
  • Gelly123
    Gelly123 Posts: 387 Forumite
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    Ladies, just want to bring something to your attention as a friend told me about it. Not sure if we'll have to go down the IVF route yet as we seem to be slipping through the cracks in the NHS with our recurrent miscarriages.

    There's a free seminar taking place in Milton Keynes on Saturday 27th June with Care Fertility. Agenda is:

    9.45 Arrival, tea/coffee, Registration
    10.00 Judith Byrne, Unit Manager - Welcome
    10.05 - 10.45 Rahnuma Kazem, Medical Director - Fertility Assessment and common causes of infertility; Patient pathway; Treatment options
    10.45 - 11.15 Lynne Nice, Lab manager - Male fertility awareness
    11.15 - 11.30 Break (with tea/coffee and pastries)
    11.30 - 11.50 Lynne Nice, Lab Manager - Maximising your chance of success in an IVF cycle including choosing the best embryo with time lapse
    11.50 - 12.15 Judith Byrne, Unit Manager - Moving forward - an outline of some options - How to become a CARE patient; Egg Sharing; Sperm Sharing; NHS Funding
    12.15 Individual one to one sessions. If you would like to speak to any of the CARE team, we are holding a series of one to one sessions

    We've signed up to go along to find out more but just in case anybody is interested, I thought I'd let you all know.

    I'll now go back to lurking and wishing you all lots of love and luck
    Gelly
    x
    Married Sept '09, Me - 38, OH - 40, TTC since Nov '12
    4 previous MC's, 6 babies lost so far :A
    The proudest mummy - July 2016 xxx
  • lauraw82
    lauraw82 Posts: 111 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hallelujah, AF is here! Never thought I would be so pleased to see her! And she's making up for it cos boy have I got cramping pains! But never mind, at least we can enjoy ourselves for a few weeks with no drugs in my system. Roll on holiday!

    Elephant, hope the 2ww isnt dragging too much, keeping my fingers crossed for you xx

    Hope everyone else is ok and finally enjoying some sun xx
  • Gelly123
    Gelly123 Posts: 387 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Ladies,

    I'm going to love you and leave you again - we got our fourth BFP this morning but having lost all of them so far, we're not sure how long our journey is going to last.

    Wishing you all lots of love and luck for the future.

    Gelly
    X
    Married Sept '09, Me - 38, OH - 40, TTC since Nov '12
    4 previous MC's, 6 babies lost so far :A
    The proudest mummy - July 2016 xxx
  • TamVilla80
    TamVilla80 Posts: 588 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    That's great Gelly, really pleased for you. Wishing you the very best, lots of healthy and happy vibes your way. Take care x
  • lauraw82
    lauraw82 Posts: 111 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Cautious congratulations Gelly! Really hope this time they are super sticky,keeping everything crossed for you xxx
  • Laura 2ww is very much draggin and I've been a font of all sorts of emotions and worries in the last week. But apparently all natural. 1 week down 1 to go. Kinda nervous cause it means this time next week we will know if it has or hasn't worked, to which I don't know if I want to know just in case it hasn't worked. Living in cloud PUPO is going to feel better than a negative result. But as my DH keeps reminding me there is just as much chance of a positive as a negative!! Glad AF has turned up for you too :-) even if it has brought some horrible cramps too. Xxx

    gelly everything crossed for you and wishing you all the luck in the world xxx
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