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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Fingers crossed and sticky thought to you skaps

    As for my test well it's clear at some point I was pregnant due to the faint positives last Sunday but today the digital clear blue test I took said not pregnant. No matter how hard I tried to prepare for this it hasn't helped I can't describe how I'm feeling right now, although unfortunately many of you will know how it feels.

    Love & hugs to all who need it ... I know I do xx
  • Floaty
    Floaty Posts: 143 Forumite
    Oh Elephant I'm so so sorry, what horrible news and how horrendous for you and DH. Look after yourselves.

    We're all here if there's anything that can help xxxxx
    35, OH 39, unexplained IF (all tests normal), no joy w/ 3 cycles of Clomid, IVF1, Jan 2015 - BFN. Currently in 1st FET cycle using endo scratch and EmbryoGlue, BFP 4th July. MC 12th July :'(
  • Thank you floaty after the faint positives last week we kinda had a shimmer of hope that today's would be positive. But we spent this week telling ourselves it might not be on a regular basis but it hasn't made today any easier for either of us. Unfortunately DH is at work today so haven't been able to see him and how he is but we will regroup together tonight. I guess the faint positives were that I was pregnant but the bleed was because it hadbt continued. Something that's going to take time a lot of time to get our heads around and decide what to do next xxx
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    So sorry elephant, sending hugs to you and your dh, give yourselves both time and support you will need and know we are all here for you xx
  • TamVilla80
    TamVilla80 Posts: 588 Forumite
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    Sending hugs and healthy vibes to you Elephant x
  • good_vibes
    good_vibes Posts: 546 Forumite
    So sorry Elephant *hugs* I had the same thing last cycle. Look after yourself x
  • Thank you everyone :) means a lot to know guys are always here.

    Hope everyone has lovely weekends. I shall be spending mine doing whatever I feel is needed xxx
  • shrimpy_80
    shrimpy_80 Posts: 1,631 Forumite
    So sorry Elephant *hugs* xx
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  • lauraw82
    lauraw82 Posts: 111 Forumite
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    Elephant so sorry to hear your news, sending hugs your way xxx
  • skaps
    skaps Posts: 2,255 Forumite
    So so sorry to hear that Elephant. Had the same thing happen with me during my last cycle. Take some time for yourselves xxx
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