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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • IVF/ICSI/IUI/FET cycles currently ongoing
    • Fairy dust: Endo scratch 9/7. IVF LP. DR (Buserelin) 28/8. Stims (Gonal F 300iu). EC 12/9, 4 eggs collected, 2 fertilised. 2x3d ET 15/9 fingersx.gif
    • Gettingthereslowly: Medicated FET. Oestrogen (Progynova). Scan 12/9. ET 17/9 fingersx.gif
    • frozenpenguin: Endo scratch 14/8. Medicated FET. DR (Buserelin) 16/8. Oestrogen (Progynova) 31/8. Scan 11/9. ET 19/9
    • Picklekin: Endo scratch 27/8. IVF LP. DR (Buserelin) 27/8. Stims 17/9.
    • Goodvibes: IVF SP. Norethisterone 19/9
    Isla_red: Further treatment Jan 2015


    Ovulation induction
    jazz25: Clomid. Appointment in November to discuss ovarian drilling.
    Littleme82: Clomid. HSG looks fine, FS appointment 04/03/14, extended for 3 months.
    MrsDavo: Clomid (150mg) and Metformin (1500mg) to try and induce ovulation, Next appt 7/8/14.


    Awaiting FS/other appointment or making alternative plans
    becks92: Planning to lose 5kg and then get IVF referral
    cwtw: IVF appointment October
    claretsgirl: Trying naturally
    Clevernamehere: On IVF list
    emmaj30: Fertlity appointment 18/9
    Floaty: Appointment and scan 5/11
    Gelly123: Trying naturally
    lisawood78: Waiting for counselling appointments. Cycle and transfer planned for Oct
    lauraw82: Appointment 24/9
    mrsvicx: Trying naturally
    pinkteapot: Follow up appointment at some point
    Primmer: Adoption report in progress, panel in October
    ricegirl145: Appointment in Sept
    Ruth26: Waiting for a scan then referral to FS. Chasing up DH's SA.
    Scottie dog: Appointment with FS in the next 2-6 weeks
    shrimpy_80: Appointment 18/9
    TamVilla80: Lap & Dye and Hysteroscopy 18/8
    ThinkPink: Being referred to gynaecologist
    vesper: Lap and dye to be arranged then possibly Clomid, chasing hospital for appointments
    Wonder_Woman: Investigating drugs for DH


    Team Wonderbra (lovely and supportive aunties)
    codemonkey
    tea lover


    Recent graduates

    • Danielley: LP. DR (Buserelin injections) 4/6. Stims (Merionel) 29/6. EC 9/7, 16 eggs collected, 11 fertilised. 1x5d ET 14/7. bfp.gif 21/07/14
    • Carrot34: Natural bfp.gif 19/07/14
    • Jammy26: Started Clomid (50mg) Jan 14. Diagnosed Fibroids. bfp.gif 19/06/14
    • loveactually: LP. DR (Buserelin) 14/2. Stims 10/03. EC 26/3, 8 eggs collected, 2 fertilised. 1x5d ET 31/3. bfp.gif 11/04/14
    • Star02: ICSI SP. Stims 5/3. EC 17/3, 17 eggs collected, 14 fertilised. 1x5d ET 22/3. bfp.gif 31/03/14
    • Angeltreats: Natural bfp.gif 28/03/14
    • Tinkwings: Monitored cycle. bfp.gif 23/03/14
    • Chickpea: Natural bfp.gif 21/03/14
    • Sewit: IVF LP. DR 13/1 Prostap. AMH4, Gonal F 375. Endo Scratch 3/1 (CD12). EC 10/02. 17 eggs, 8 embies. ET 13/2. 2x3dET 13/2. bfp.gif 26/02/14
    • Whattodonow: IVF LP. DR 15/12. Stims 4/1. EC 17/1. 19 eggs collected, 16 fertilised. 1x5dET 22/1. 225iu Merional bfp.gif 02/02/14
    • Peonie: IVF SP. Stim 1/1. EC 15/1. 13 eggs collected. 8 fertilized. 1x5dET 20/01. bfp.gif31/01/14
    • teaandcakeordeath: Natural bfp.giffrom 'just relaxing'! 26/01/14
  • Aaw Penguin, good luck for Friday. It such a crazy time, I don't think you could ever be fully prepared for it?!

    Afm, feeling very hormonal. Just watched Bake Off and had to ditch the diet to make microwave mug cake - I neeeeded cake!
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    edited 17 September 2014 at 11:53PM
    TamVilla80 wrote: »
    Aaw Penguin, good luck for Friday. It such a crazy time, I don't think you could ever be fully prepared for it?!

    Afm, feeling very hormonal. Just watched Bake Off and had to ditch the diet to make microwave mug cake - I neeeeded cake!

    Microwave mug cake? I need to know about this!!

    Hmmm, I have all those ingredients....
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • Thanks Frozen :)

    Good luck for tomorrow, hope everything goes well xx! I think because it is something that we want so much we always think what could I have done more when we have likely done all that we can. So try not worry too much :) At least being kept busy will keep your mind off it for oooh about 30 seconds but it will hopefully make the 2ww pass quicker.

    Pickle How's things with you? Hope you are feeling a bit more relaxed now that you are away from work. :)

    GTS Hope you are doing ok & taking it easy :)

    Hugs to those that need them xx

    AFM forgot how much it hurts when taking your bra off for the night :eek: then the further pain of my pyjama top touching when it goes on :eek::eek: After spending the day after my ET a blubbering mess after googling obsessively if a 3dt of a 4 cell embryo will work (there were just as many bfps as there were bfns) I've decided to be positive about it as being miserable isn't going to help at all. I've done everything I can and as my transfer was a couple of hours earlier than my previous cycles I'm telling myself that had it been done later the cells would have divided some more to a 6 cell which is normal :o
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  • Hello folks, thanks for your hugs and stuff, it really does help :)

    I'm a little better, started stimming yesterday (went OK, although is sticking a needle into yourself ever fun? :p) and had hoped I'd wake up this morning miraculously happy, but sadly that hasn't happened. Have a day of cake making though so will keep me occupied.

    I'm hoping really hard for you Fairy..
  • Thanks Pickle, it's much appreciated :) xx

    It will take a while for you to start feeling happier, think of all the stress you are going through at the moment, all the delightful hormones that are going into your body amongst other things. No-one expects you to pick yourself up and be back to normal overnight :) Glad you are feeling a bit better though. Ooh cake making will definitely keep you occupied that and tasting your makes! Yum!:drool: xx
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  • Hi guys,
    Im currently still in my pjs on the sette with 2 little embies on board. Both thankfully thawed perfectly. Had the choice of 1 or 2. After a bit a chat and advice we decided on transferring both.more of a praying one will stick rather than wanting twins. Testing on 1st oct. So nervous!

    Frozen wishing you lots of luck for tomorrow x

    Fairy keeping my fingers crossed for you x

    Primer wishing you lots of luck x

    Pickle hope you are ok and sending u hugs x
  • Hi,


    my wife and I have been trying for our 2nd child for about 7 years and 2 years ago we applied for IVF.


    Well the latest is that we have 4 fertilised eggs and we have to ring in the morning to see whether my wife has to go tomorrow or Sunday to have 2 of them put back in.


    Does anyone know if 4 is a good amount? (out of 7 they took out)


    Once we get to the stage of fertilised eggs being put back do you think the percentage of getting pregnant is much higher than when they first tell you the percentages at the start of the process?


    We are just a roller coaster of emotions as you would expect at present.


    Thanks in advance.


    L
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    4 out of 7 is a great fertilisation rate (for info, I only ever got 4 fertilised out of 18 collected).

    Tbh I'm not sure what you mean about the percentages, but best of luck with it all x.
  • tea_lover wrote: »
    4 out of 7 is a great fertilisation rate (for info, I only ever got 4 fertilised out of 18 collected).

    Tbh I'm not sure what you mean about the percentages, but best of luck with it all x.



    Thanks for your reply..


    When I mentioned percentage what I meant was that at the very start of the IVF we were given say 30% chance of having a baby and was wondering if the chances have gone up now we have got to the stage of fertilised eggs being put back in.


    Thanks
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