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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • mrsvicx
    mrsvicx Posts: 426 Forumite
    Code, you wouldn't believe how many times I've thought that if I had an affair I'd get bleeding pregnant straight away!!!
    10/10 [STRIKE]£12,156.26 [/STRIKE] 11/10 [STRIKE]£11,950[/STRIKE] 04/11[STRIKE] £12,500 [/STRIKE]Ooops! Okay, back on track - 01/2014 £2,800, 05/2014 £4,500 (my car died!)

    My little angel (due date 25/12/2014) :A 05/2014
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    It's mostly me that's broken so no use having an afair.come to think of it some attension would be nice.
  • mrsvicx
    mrsvicx Posts: 426 Forumite
    Aw PM, ttc puts such a strain on relationships. Guys just don't seem to get how hard it is on us. My DH is being sympathetic at the moment, but it know it will only last so long and he'll expect me to move on pretty quickly...
    10/10 [STRIKE]£12,156.26 [/STRIKE] 11/10 [STRIKE]£11,950[/STRIKE] 04/11[STRIKE] £12,500 [/STRIKE]Ooops! Okay, back on track - 01/2014 £2,800, 05/2014 £4,500 (my car died!)

    My little angel (due date 25/12/2014) :A 05/2014
  • mrsvicx
    mrsvicx Posts: 426 Forumite
    I'm off to bed now, to lie awake all night thinking of what could (and should) have been. Night all xx
    10/10 [STRIKE]£12,156.26 [/STRIKE] 11/10 [STRIKE]£11,950[/STRIKE] 04/11[STRIKE] £12,500 [/STRIKE]Ooops! Okay, back on track - 01/2014 £2,800, 05/2014 £4,500 (my car died!)

    My little angel (due date 25/12/2014) :A 05/2014
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Mrs vics thinking of you today.

    We've had so much stress for so many years now with no let up.
  • mrsvicx
    mrsvicx Posts: 426 Forumite
    Hi all,
    All is much as expected. No sign of a pregnancy, so they did some more bloods to make sure my HCG levels are coming down.
    Should find that out tomorrow and then everything can get back to normal.
    Pretty crap, but feeling a bit brighter today...
    Sorry for the moping yesterday and thank you all for the support xx
    10/10 [STRIKE]£12,156.26 [/STRIKE] 11/10 [STRIKE]£11,950[/STRIKE] 04/11[STRIKE] £12,500 [/STRIKE]Ooops! Okay, back on track - 01/2014 £2,800, 05/2014 £4,500 (my car died!)

    My little angel (due date 25/12/2014) :A 05/2014
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    mrs vicx huge hugs to you, I hope you can get some rest today.
  • vesper
    vesper Posts: 941 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Huge hugs Mrsvicx.




    I wish I could remember what it feels like to have a normal s.e.x life, we have been trying for about 7 ish years now (its so long I've kind of lost count), and I haven't used any form of contraception in 11 years.


    So worked out I need to lose over 2 stone to get my BMI to under 30. Mmmm this is going to be hard work. But OH is going jogging with me Tuesday after his SA.
    Remember never judge someone that makes a mistake, because in six months time it may be you that makes the next mistake.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Vesper same here its been 7 years with no contraception.so frustrating isn't it. I hope the jogging helps. Weight loss is sooo tricky. Easy to go on though.
  • vesper
    vesper Posts: 941 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    It feels so weird saying 11 years with no contraception. My friends were on about condoms and the pill the other day, and I realised I didn't have a clue about what they were talking about, featherlite and soft touch and what ever.


    I swear I look at cake and it jumps on my bum.
    Remember never judge someone that makes a mistake, because in six months time it may be you that makes the next mistake.
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