I phoned up my boyfriend's ex-gf. She's a therapist and she told me a few things.

Scorpio33

Toucan_Pecan wrote: »

Guess what he's back home now from hospital.

I don't want to leave the room to see him. Feel pretty !!!!ing sick.

Now I know you are trolling - the hospital would not let him leave unless you concented to looing after him at home.


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StuC75

Make a statement to the police that he is making threats regarding indecent pictures that he has of you..

There is no 'Should Have Been with Me'; you weren't together, and you should have been having relationships.. There is nothing wrong there. And to be trying to hold that against you now is the lowest of the low.. He sounds weak, feeble

He should just respect that the past is the past and that everyone should just move on when appropriate. what you had in the past may have been special for you at that 'moment\nostalgic' but its not worth unhappiness in the present of future..

Toucan_Pecan wrote: »

Well I'm not very experienced relationship-wise - although that didn't stop him from trashing me for being in two short relationships between the ages of 24 and 29 (the "in between years when you should have been with me"). It just got worse and worse over time. I felt chained to him because I felt nostalgia for somewhat romantic past we had and because I slept with him.

I can't smash his hard drive. He will call the police or smash something of mine.

paulineb_2

Toucan_Pecan wrote: »

I do, but this is sadly the truth.

So he just left hospital and came back to your home and let himself in with a key?

If if were me sitting at home not wanting to see someone Id have my door shut and key in the lock so they couldnt get in.

No one gets past my front door unless I want them in my home.

Toucan_Pecan

Scorpio33 wrote: »

Now I know you are trolling - the hospital would not let him leave unless you concented to looing after him at home.


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What? He had an infection and went in on 2nd. I don't feel like I can leave the room. Don't want to see him or talk to him.

paulineb_2

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Now I know you are trolling - the hospital would not let him leave unless you concented to looing after him at home.


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Thats not actually the case, people can be discharged from hospital as long as they have an address to go to, not saying the OP isnt trolling, but discharging a patient doesnt have anything to do with having someone to look after them at home. Not in my experience of having a relative discharged from hospital on more than one occasion.

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Why not put this on twitter. People lap this stuff up on twitter

edit: i don't see why a hospital can't discharges someone; unless they're unable to look after themselves (e.g. too elderly)

Toucan_Pecan

paulineb wrote: »

So he just left hospital and came back to your home and let himself in with a key?

If if were me sitting at home not wanting to see someone Id have my door shut and key in the lock so they couldnt get in.

No one gets past my front door unless I want them in my home.

I couldn't do that. I'm scared of him and all his stuff is here so he'd shout and bang on the door. Nothing is more important to him than his things.

paulineb_2

Toucan_Pecan wrote: »

I couldn't do that. I'm scared of him and all his stuff is here so he'd shout and bang on the door. Nothing is more important to him than his things.

Thats when you pick up the phone and call the police.

Mojisola

paulineb wrote: »

Thats when you pick up the phone and call the police.

And while you're waiting for the police to arrive, you pack up his stuff and hand it to them and he can go off and get a hotel room.

sax11

was a dull topic until i saw the words naked pics

send them over - i'll soon let you know if this is all genuine