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I phoned up my boyfriend's ex-gf. She's a therapist and she told me a few things.
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So you are saying that you are prepared to allow someone to treat you like that.
I have nothing else to say to someone who has no self respect and until you are willing to change your life, no one can help you :mad:
The fault is with the person doing the abusing.
I have plenty self respect, but it didnt stop me meeting two complete !!!!!!.0 -
Urrgh the NHS didn't even invoice him!! Overseas officers milled around him around 3 times and they didn't charge him a thing. Pretty lax....0
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Toucan_Pecan wrote: »A break-up! Can't be around a man claiming I'm "faking being normal" because I'm "unbalanced and have borderline personality disorder".
Then do it.. . .I did not speak out
Then they came for me
And there was no one left
To speak out for me..
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Hes got someone else on the side, the situation is toxic, just let him go home and have no more contact with him, for your own mental healths sake.0
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I really don't know why I'm continung to post on this thread - but if it is for real, once he has gone back to whichever stone he lives beneath, block him from your emails and texts, sever all contacts with his ex-gf - and move without leaving a forwarding address.
You do not need anyone like this in your life!0 -
do you ever get that impression you've missed the first episode and havent got a clue what's happening????2014 Target;
To overpay CC by £1,000.
Overpayment to date : £310
2nd Purse Challenge:
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Toucan_Pecan wrote: »When I phoned her the other day she said: "I learned that you can love a person but that you don't have to be with the person you love". I asked her why she loved him. She said she didn't want to get into that as it would bring up hurtful emotions.
I have to say that this therapist ex just sounds like she spouts stuff from self-help books. I wouldn't pay her for therapy!0 -
Where did he spend the night?"An arrogant and self-righteous Guardian reading tvv@t".
!!!!!! is all that about?0 -
OP, google "co-dependency".
Get some therapy yourself, move house and change your phone number.
Then get on with your own life.DMP Mutual Support Thread member 244
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Have we heard from OP today?"An arrogant and self-righteous Guardian reading tvv@t".
!!!!!! is all that about?0
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