I phoned up my boyfriend's ex-gf. She's a therapist and she told me a few things.

Toucan_Pecan

I'm here..... Guess what? He messed up his flight. It was today! He had to pay $400 to change to a new flight on 15th..... some serious bad luck going on. He's quiet now, thanked me for my help in the hospital. It really helped that I didn't get angry as I did in the past. He would use that for leverage to prove I'm 'unbalanced' etc.

It's taught me not to let any man define my level of sanity. I have had problems in the past with an ex who did something similar when I didn't do as he said. My problem is that I am obliging to begin with and very aware of how I can help others - I put a lot of effort and care into helping my partner (and past partners)..... and sometimes this means I attract horrid men with a sense of entitlement.

Bazey

Gas lighting.

LilElvis

So are you going to let him stay until 15th?

Can you let us know the airport/flight number so we can all come and wave him off?

jellyhead

Toucan_Pecan wrote: »

No, that won't work. They're in his email accounts.

Ask the therapist if she knows his password? Maybe she'll delete them for you

DomRavioli

Is it just me or do these 3 sound like psychopaths?

Toucan_Pecan

DomRavioli wrote: »

Is it just me or do these 3 sound like psychopaths?

Do you even know what a psychopath is? I'm not a psychopath.

Bazey

Toucan_Pecan wrote: »

Do you even know what a psychopath is? I'm not a psychopath.

Isn't it like crazy paving?

Toucan_Pecan

Bazey wrote: »

Isn't it like crazy paving?

Yes, and I'm not made of stone

thorsoak

Book him into a hotel - there is no need for him to be in your home. Or send him to the ex GF/therapist.

Caroline_a

Trip trap trip trap...