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I phoned up my boyfriend's ex-gf. She's a therapist and she told me a few things.

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  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    Thought it was a cycle path!!! ;-)
  • Severe anxiety which he claims I triggered in him when I left him when I was 23 in 2006.


    Oh for goodness sake. It really *angers* me that people as manipulative and nasty as this bloke seem to regularly find women falling over themselves to be exploited.

    I would say walk away now, but actually I think you should bloody well leg it!
  • Girlzmum
    Girlzmum Posts: 539 Forumite
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    Well, did he get his flight?
    Norn Iron Club member 273:beer:
  • Yes. He's staying with his ex now and trying to get a job at a posh members only club. Claims he once earned $400 in one night from tips (tax free). Claims he was depressed/anxious whatever and stopped working for years but now wants to return.
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    So now that he is no longer in the country, send all his emails to trash so that you don't even read them, block his no/text on your phones - you don't have to listen to his rubbish.
  • Please stop indulging this nonsense and move on. You're better than this.
    Current debt: M&S £0(£2K) , Tesco £0 (£1.5K), Car loan 6K (paid off!) Barclaycard £1.5K (interest free for 18 months)
  • itsanne
    itsanne Posts: 5,001 Forumite
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    So he's out of your life now. Keep it that way. Follow Thorsoak's instructions.
    . . .I did not speak out

    Then they came for me
    And there was no one left
    To speak out for me..

    Martin Niemoller
  • woody2234
    woody2234 Posts: 414 Forumite
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    feel sorry for toucan pecan but if it was a fake story this would b my post

    This story will not make the movies so far but it may suite tv show casualty , story line is an american musician is on a 3 month tour in the uk and headlining at glasto but falls of stage and injures his leg and gets rushed to casualty in bristol ( before casualty moved to cardiff) but both girlfriends turn up at the same time because he accidently text both at the same time in the ambulance and they turn up at casualty and relise hes been having an affair then they have a scuffle but charlie and big mac breaks it up then later the boy has a cry and says hes going back to denver colorado to be with hes other girlfriend because she sent him a text saying she loves him and then they all have a cry then charlie and zoe and adrian comforts them and they all live happily ever after
    Let them eat cake (Marie Antoinette 1765)
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    woody2234 wrote: »
    feel sorry for toucan pecan but if it was a fake story this would b my post

    This story will not make the movies so far but it may suite tv show casualty , story line is an american musician is on a 3 month tour in the uk and headlining at glasto but falls of stage and injures his leg and gets rushed to casualty in bristol ( before casualty moved to cardiff) but both girlfriends turn up at the same time because he accidently text both at the same time in the ambulance and they turn up at casualty and relise hes been having an affair then they have a scuffle but charlie and big mac breaks it up then later the boy has a cry and says hes going back to denver colorado to be with hes other girlfriend because she sent him a text saying she loves him and then they all have a cry then charlie and zoe and adrian comforts them and they all live happily ever after

    ..and to think I wasted 30 seconds of my life reading such rubbish! ::rotfl::rotfl:
  • woody2234 wrote: »
    feel sorry for toucan pecan but if it was a fake story this would b my post

    This story will not make the movies so far but it may suite tv show casualty , story line is an american musician is on a 3 month tour in the uk and headlining at glasto but falls of stage and injures his leg and gets rushed to casualty in bristol ( before casualty moved to cardiff) but both girlfriends turn up at the same time because he accidently text both at the same time in the ambulance and they turn up at casualty and relise hes been having an affair then they have a scuffle but charlie and big mac breaks it up then later the boy has a cry and says hes going back to denver colorado to be with hes other girlfriend because she sent him a text saying she loves him and then they all have a cry then charlie and zoe and adrian comforts them and they all live happily ever after


    he never owned a phone.... was too stingy....
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