Rebuilding Trust...

GBNI

fluffnutter wrote: »

Really? I've never met a woman who buys her everyday bobby dazzlers from a sex shop. Saucy!

That's not really fair to say, Ann Summers DO stock Knicker Box stuff which is perfectly respectable. Not all of their stuff is 'smuty.' I buy a lot of my everyday underwear in Victoria's Secret, doesn't mean I'm strutting around in corsets, suspenders and giant angel wings!

Pechow

It depends-if you're posting from a computer, sometimes it can tag your location based on where your ISP/IP/server places you, which isn't necessarily close to where you are. I've always found mine to be accurate* though.

Their own FAQ says "Often, when signing in through a mobile device, you're routed through an IP address that doesn’t actually reflect your physical location.". I checked my login sessions once and it said I was posting from another county! Don't take any of this to prove anything any way or the other, though.

Edit: *accurate when posting from computer, when I was using the iPad it placed me elsewhere

Waney_B

Fluffnutter,

The post was to tell you all what was in my head, and why I thought what I thought...

Not for you lot to pick on me etc. I thought a few days after it that she was having an affair in a hotel, with stuff bought from Ann Summers with this guy from the local town.

So, how do I move on?

stir_crazy

I live in Aberdeen, FB always thinks I'm in Dublin for some reason. I thought someone was "hacking" me until I realised that its contantly the same.

fluffnutter

GBNI wrote: »

That's not really fair to say, Ann Summers DO stock Knicker Box stuff which is perfectly respectable. Not all of their stuff is 'smuty.' I buy a lot of my everyday underwear in Victoria's Secret, doesn't mean I'm strutting around in corsets, suspenders and giant angel wings!

What a disappointment

fluffnutter

Waney_B wrote: »

Fluffnutter,

The post was to tell you all what was in my head, and why I thought what I thought...

Not for you lot to pick on me etc. I thought a few days after it that she was having an affair in a hotel, with stuff bought from Ann Summers with this guy from the local town.

So, how do I move on?

OK. The location stuff probably can be inaccurate. But, at the end of the day, you either have doubts or you don't. You trust your missus, or you don't. Not much a bunch of strangers can do to help with that.

Any

Waney_B wrote: »

Fuel - She was supposed to be going to a friends house who she has known for years, I knew about this but it was cancelled last minute. One of the fuel entries on the account was to fill the car to go here, with the same amount 3-4 days later to head to the airport to collect a family member.

As her friend cancelled on her, she went out in town with a few college friends.

Confused... so where did the fuel bought for the visit go if 3 days later there was a need to fill up again??

Have you seen the new bras... are they everyday wear??

You put a lot of thoughts that now you say are irrelevant and you have explanation.. sounds to me like you don't really want to know the truth anyway, so forget it.

Every relationship has it's ups and downs. But she is still with you, and as long as your relationship now is good what does it matter what happened in past?
If you are worried she might turn her head now then you obviously need to work on the relationship... Not only promise to when something happens!

paulineb_2

fluffnutter wrote: »

OK. The location stuff probably can be inaccurate. But, at the end of the day, you either have doubts or you don't. You trust your missus, or you don't. Not much a bunch of strangers can do to help with that.

Agreed. How do you know how many financial transactions your wife has been making anyway?

Im presuming you have a joint account. You either trust her or you dont and if she has been having doubts about you, perhaps your relationship is in trouble anyway, what I mean is, long term, she might not want to stay with you.

You arent going to know if shes telling the truth on this one Im afraid.

19lottie82

Waney_B wrote: »

Mrs X had a "I don't think were going to work" chat with me whilst I was away from home, stuck overseas with no way of getting back.

Sorry to be harsh but it looks to me like she has pretty much broken up with you?

TeamLowe

Have you seen the bras?
Ann Summers don't just stock underwear, maybe she was embarassed to admit what she actually bought to keep herself occupied when you're away