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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Code can't help I'm afraid but hope all is ok, when does your dh have his bloods done?
  • Skint_Catt
    Skint_Catt Posts: 11,548 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hi all, just found the new thread - been missing in action as I struggle to keep up with this thread & there was no news from me!

    UPDATE:Had my pelvic ultrasound & TV scan too today. Lady said overies didn't look too large (sign of PCOS?) but a fair amount of imature follices (I don't even know what this means - how thick am I!) so no good news/no bad news! Got to wait until Wednesday to speak to GP re results. Waiting for next period & more blood tests on CD3 as we were on holiday when my last period came on CD53 (typical!).

    CD13 for me - did remember to start Agnus Castus (sp?) this cycle so we'll see what happens.

    Came home to find a friend who's got a ds 6 weeks younger than my dd annoucing her 2nd pregnancy. Now feel sick & ill :(
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    God knows. He's being rather useless tbh. GP is phoning him back so he can tell him what tests I've had done?! Not sure why that matters as we've already been referred to the FS. And also, I've told him every step of the way what I'm having done so he clearly doesn't listen to a word I say. Trying to talk to DH about it is like talking to a brick wall. One word answers and saying he's fine and behaving like its all ok.

    I'm guessing from some googling that they don't do blood tests if everything is normal, so obviously I'm a bit upset.
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Code hugs, men are so useless at times esp with medical stuff. It's hard not to worry isn't it.
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    Part_Mouse wrote: »
    Code hugs, men are so useless at times esp with medical stuff. It's hard not to worry isn't it.

    I'm so glad you guys are here or I'd be going mad. He's bleedin useless.

    I just want to cry, but what's the point?
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • Floaty
    Floaty Posts: 143 Forumite
    My dh had some blood tests at one point and got called in to discuss. We were panicking but it turned out his cholesterol was a bit high and that had triggered the call. Obviously not ideal, and we've been careful to try to address it, but the panic was unwarranted. Hope it's something similar with you guys xxx
    35, OH 39, unexplained IF (all tests normal), no joy w/ 3 cycles of Clomid, IVF1, Jan 2015 - BFN. Currently in 1st FET cycle using endo scratch and EmbryoGlue, BFP 4th July. MC 12th July :'(
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Code you know a good cry might just help, we all need to let out from time to time, your going through a lot aswell so no wonder your stressed.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Argh started spotting :(
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    Part_Mouse wrote: »
    Argh started spotting :(
    fingers crossed its the elusive implantation bleed.
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    I hope so but think it would be quite late for that.come on body beheave for once.
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