The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Part_Mouse

Danielly thanks, hoping this cycle ends before 3 months are up.

SewIt_2

I trimmed downstairs, but not like a Brazilian or anything! My thinking was they have seen it all before and then some!

I felt more exposed during ET, I think cause I was awake and essentially naked from the tummy down, with legs akimbo in a room full of people (I say full, but 1 dr, 2 nurses, embryologist and DH). During EC you are out for the count, so don't know what's happening.

PM - hugs for BFN. Small comfort at the moment, but you did ovulate! Yippee! That is great and a major hurdle to get over. Is there a reason they are not giving you IVF yet?

danielley - good luck for your appointment. Take your time and ask all the questions that you need!

AFM - hubby did apologise last night, once I told him what he was apologising for! Men, hurmph! :mad: Figured things are hard enough so might as well stop being mad as it only uses up energy I don't have!

Out to a work event tonight, with lots of free cocktails, so I intend to partake of a few!

hugs ladies xx

Part_Mouse

Sewit it glad your dh appologised men hey.

I think as im a very slow responder to meds it was better to try injections first, it took so long just to get one egg aswell after losing my lining half way through. I did say about trying od and lap and dye but fs said to carry on the route we are.

Ladies can I ask a very tmi q? as i don't ov at all and am 13dpo I have a heck of a lot of cm, sort of lotion type but stretchy? alsmost like bogeys? lol sorry.I don't know if this is normal or not?

MrsDavo

PM - is it like egg whites or like cottage cheese lol - god the things we talk about! Xx

Part_Mouse

MrsDavo wrote: »

PM - is it like egg whites or like cottage cheese lol - god the things we talk about! Xx

hm ive never had cottage cheese lol, not egg white and quite thick/sort of lotion type:o but also kinda stretchy:o

MrsDavo

I usually get that, but I don't track so wouldn't know what time in my cycle I get it.
Have you tried googling it?

Part_Mouse

I have, some have said they got it before their BFP, im not sure though?

MrsDavo

I was going to say are they sure the date you O'd? Do you know what your progesterone result was?
Thing with CM is it's all very personal and what's a bfp sign for one won't be for another. That's why I've never bothered tracking it much. Although I'm starting to make notes when I notice certain types to see if there's a pattern.

Part_Mouse

Yes pretty sure of dates as i had a trigger shot and progesterone was 34 last Fri. Difficult to know whats going on when you don't ov at all, when you do everything is totally out of the norm.

codemonkey

Ok, ladies, worrying a wee bit. DH finally spoke to the GP, and he said he couldn't give results over the phone, but DH needs to have blood tests. He also wants to know what tests I've had done. Is this normal? I'm panicking that it's not good news.