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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Mrs davo I hope the bloods showed ov for you I really do, at least we have a chance then

    I'm not to bad really, sill no sign of af @12dpo and intermittent cramps but still bfn. Will test gain at 14dpo.

    Hugs for an emotional day.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    codemonkey wrote: »
    Good idea. Perhaps we could have a waiting for something to happen part as well, for those of us clogged on waiting lists?

    ok - how about 'Awaiting next appointment'.
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    time2deal wrote: »
    ok - how about 'Awaiting next appointment'.

    That works.
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    edited 26 October 2013 at 9:11PM
    IVF/ICSI/FET cycles currently ongoing.

    Derby2: Start down-regging on 20th October.
    Wonder Woman: Starting down regulation on 24.10.13
    Tea Lover: Starting down reg in the coming weeks.
    Rowingirl: Started down reg 21.10.2013
    Time2deal: Starting downreg 4.11.2013


    Ovulation induction (Clomid unless otherwise stated)
    cwtw (inositol)
    FrozenPenguin
    Part Mouse (Menopur)
    goodvibes
    Littleme82
    MrsDavo
    Picklekin

    Awaiting FS or other appointment.
    Danielley
    Floaty
    lisawood78 (surrogacy)
    onestep (adoption)

    ttc limbo
    Purcy82



    As always, if you want to change something, please do it in magenta as I will update from time to time and it easier to spot them in all the chat.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    hows that? Feel free to add yourself into any category.
    Lisawood - did you have your surrogacy appointment? How did it go?
  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    If someone has a baby shower do they also expect a present when the baby is born? Luckily I've not been invited to one and I would not have one either.

    Confession time: a few months ago I bought a Tiffany Rose maternity dress of fleabay :naughty: It's very pretty :o
    Pots: House £6966/£7100, Rainy day Complete, [STRIKE]Sunny day £0/£700[/STRIKE], IVF £2523/£2523, Car up-keep £135/£135, New car £5000/£5000, Holiday £1000/£1000, MFW #16 £2077/£3120
    MFiT3 #86: Reduce mortgage from £146,800 to £125,000
    Mortgage Sept 2014: £135,500, MF Oct 2035 Peak July 2011: £154,000, MF July 2036
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    Loving the new list, thank you so much for keeping track of us all T2D.

    Just to be awkward, I don't have a date for our next cycle yet. Probably start stimms (short protocol) sometime in November. Although depending on timing may end up being next year, as obv. don't want EC etc to fall right over christmas.
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    Peonie wrote: »
    If someone has a baby shower do they also expect a present when the baby is born?

    Christ knows but they should expect to be shot. Baby showers. Pah.
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    tea_lover wrote: »
    Loving the new list, thank you so much for keeping track of us all T2D.

    Just to be awkward, I don't have a date for our next cycle yet. Probably start stimms (short protocol) sometime in November. Although depending on timing may end up being next year, as obv. don't want EC etc to fall right over christmas.

    Done. And updated me too. :j
  • So today I spent at least 90 minutes (waiting in hospital for my Mum) defacing an interview of Caprice with her two babies... I have never read something that filled me with such rage! Seriously- she met someone in June 2011, within 2 months they've moved in, 'soon after' (magazines words) she is pregnant, 6 weeks later she miscarries twins (can't be nice for anyone- but the hate starts after this part)...... She then has 3 cycles of IVF in 2012 that fail- after 'trying to conceive again naturally'- seriously- how long did she spend post miscarriage ttc? A day?!? Can you imagine rocking up to your GP's after at most 6 months ttc and asking for IVF?! Consultant suggests surrogacy to her- surrogate gets pregnant. She 'relaxes' and conceives her 'miracle' baby. !!!!!!. WT actual F. Why?

    *my anger issues are clearly apparent in this post. Apologies for any unintentional offence- but this woman and the interview WAS ridiculous!
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