The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Peonie

Big hugs RG and T2D, what a crappy day for you both. T2D, hopefully they can do something for you in the next few days.

WTDN, what a good memory you have. My friend that said that is trying for her second IVF baby now.

Rowingirl

Thank you ladies for all your support. I feel so worn out by infertility so DH & I are taking a break before our next cycle. DH wants to thank you all for your support; he's been overwhelmed at times by infertility & IVF and doesn't what to say to me so is glad there are people who do.

Rowingirl

Thanks WTDN, I remember reading that and it is helpful.

Peonie - I wish your friend lots of luck and hope this cycle works for her.

mrshappy

So sorry this cycle didn't work for you Row I know there are no words to make you feel better just now, I hope you and your OH can take time out to spend time together and support each other through this tough time xxx

Hugs also to PM and Time2deal xx

cwtw

RG so sorry for your news, I think everyone needs a break after the first run.
T2D I can't believe how well you're coping with all of your news.

s0d chocolate, I think everyone deserves a large glass of whiskey and a box of chocolates. We're not pregnant after all...

Hugs to all, I think you all deserve them.

Part_Mouse

Make mine a white wine.

time2deal

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Dude. You are coping so well with all this by the looks of it. MASSIVE hugs. What the berloody hell luck have you got eh? Something good just HAS to happen now, surely? PLEASE!

I know.. 2013 really has been a horrible year for me. I was chatting to a friend thinking about this time last year I was healthy, preparing for IVF, in a beautiful flat preparing for an amazing family holiday with the whole family for the first time in 7 years.

Since then I've had cancer, failed IVF, my brother has divorced, and in the midst of a horrible custody battle, my sister lost two jobs, the flat has flooded twice ruining my new wood floors, and we had this conversation in a complete mess as currently the builders are hacking off the rising damp found in the walls!

Seriously... bring on 2014. I've had enough of this year.

(p.s. I'm fine - sort of at the point of amused incredulity at it all. Mine was a red. Bearing in mind I can still taste the GA it probably wasn't a great idea, but stuff 'em.)

bigzippy

Rowing, sorry this cycle wasn't the one

T2d, I really really hope they find the best possible way forward for you, sharpish! and that you and your DH don't end up completely round the twist in the meantime!! :shocked:

Good luck with the appointment and weight loss, code

Hope things smooth over with Oh, tea and that the appointment goes well.

Derby, good luck!

:wave: to everyone else

*relurk*

tea_lover

RG - so sorry it was a BFN.
T2D - hope things are ok today and that an amazing Plan B becomes clear.

What a truly s****y day all round yesterday was eh? Surely this means we're all due the most amazing weekend ever now??

vesper

Oh huge squishy hugs all round, topped off with hot chocolate, wine and a giant box of choccies.

Hope this weekend goes better for all.

Another baby facebook announcement today. This one really hit hard as her partner is mostly away serving with one of the armed forces so it's not like they've sat and tried every month. Plus she got married the day before me. I know I should be happy for her, but I just feel jealous this time.