The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Rowingirl

Huge, huge hugs T2D. I hope your doctors find a solution for you tonight. I have everything crossed for you.

PM I'm glad your mum is feeling better.

I tested this morning and it was a BFN. AF started this afternoon. The extra cyclogest didn't stop the bleeding. We have a review appointment with our FS on 10 December; I hope she may have some answers.

Part_Mouse

RG im so sorry af got you sending huge hugs your way.

time2deal

Oh, I'm so sorry Rowingirl. And PM about the bleeding.

What a tough day all round.

If ever there was need for some dodgy group hugs it's today.
:grouphug::grouphug:

Wonder_Woman

Oh Rowin I'm so so sorry to hear that and T2D sorry you've had such such am awful day, praying the docs find a way forward for you.

More dodgy group hugs for everyone :grouphug: life really is a !!!!! at times.

Primmer

RowingGirl - so sorry honey sending huge hugs. The same happened to me but I really hoped it would work for you. If you need to talk/rant please feel free to pm me.

T2D - Huge hugs, live doesn't seem fair does it. Really hope they xan do something, don't give up hope and 8 eggs us fantastic

Hugs to all x

purcy81

:grouphug: Huge hugs t2d and rowingirl x

Derby2

Hugs RG xx

Whattodonow

time2deal wrote: »

Not good news today. Eight eggs but they still can't access my womb and have cancelled the cycle. If the eggs fertilize they will be frozen.

She basically said it will never work, and to look at surrogacy. Devastated. I really thought out would work. I just want to pack up and go to Australia. Like tomorrow.

time2deal wrote: »

god this is a rollercoaster. Docs are talking, and will see if they can do something v quick to fix the problem. Can't do another GA, so it just depends if I can cope with dilatation while awake.

Will find out more tomorrow -Prof said it's 50/50. Not sure I can cope with the emotions, but I will. Fingers crossed for me! Time to drop by the church for a few words I think...

time2deal wrote: »

Chocolate is on the way. And I've requested sugary carbs.

Total emotional rollercoaster now. I'm feeling ok now. Ok enough to remember that when I was weighed this morning I was 8kg down on my weight at last IVF in January. I didn't realise it was so much! And that is with a few kg of IVF bloat. Silver lining and all that.

Dude. You are coping so well with all this by the looks of it. MASSIVE hugs. What the berloody hell luck have you got eh? Something good just HAS to happen now, surely? PLEASE!

Floaty

So sorry Rowingirl

Wow T2D, what I'm thinking rhymes with bread duck, well done for keeping going! Doughnuts, that's what you need.

Xxx

Whattodonow

Rowin. I have to admit I am devastated for you. Sorry RG. So sorry.

Peonie said something that has stuck with me, that a nurse told her at our clinic. Think of the first IVF as a trial run, where the clinic can learn how things go for you. Then the second cycle is the proper one.

I know you're probs not thinking about this now, but just wanted to send you something hopeful.

xx