The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

time2deal

TeamLowe wrote: »

Oh T2D i wish there was something I could say to make things better, I'm just so sorry that they've said that and second Nicki's advice for a second opinion x x

She wasn't that blunt. They are a fantastic clinic, wonderful people, and she was as devastated as me. But pragmatic.

SewIt_2

T2D - I am so sorry to hear that news, I really hoped this was going to be your cycle. Big big hugs and get your DH to get more chocolate to you as a priority! And anything else that you want. Take the time to let the news wash over you both and then think about your next steps. :grouphug:

PM - how's things with your cycle and your mum?

Derby - sorry no snow baby, but as you say, focus on the one you have on board. They are leaving you very late to test, well done if you hang on until then. xx

Code - you're welcome for the info, but please remember that was just my experience and other health boards might be different (I'm NHS-GGC). Feel free to ask if you have any questions.

hugs everyone xx

Floaty

T2d, that's some uber carppy news you've been given. Immediately obtain chocolate by whatever means possible. I hope you can get away with having tomorrow off work. Major hugs xxxx

Tea, if any any doubt or concern there are far more expert people to consult than randomers on t'internet. (Yes, I see the irony )

Part_Mouse

Sewit my mum ok thanks but im still bleeding.started spotting on sat morning but red blood now.
T2d you need chocolate.

Derby2

Sending you virtual chocolate and hugs T2D

codemonkey

So sorry for your news t2d. I was hoping this would be it for you. Hope there's something they can do. Hugest hugs.

time2deal

god this is a rollercoaster. Docs are talking, and will see if they can do something v quick to fix the problem. Can't do another GA, so it just depends if I can cope with dilatation while awake.

Will find out more tomorrow -Prof said it's 50/50. Not sure I can cope with the emotions, but I will. Fingers crossed for me! Time to drop by the church for a few words I think...

abis21

T2D - really hope that the odds go in your favour. I'll be thinking n hoping for you. Hope the chocolate situation is rectified as it may help with the rollecoaster... x

time2deal

Chocolate is on the way. And I've requested sugary carbs.

Total emotional rollercoaster now. I'm feeling ok now. Ok enough to remember that when I was weighed this morning I was 8kg down on my weight at last IVF in January. I didn't realise it was so much! And that is with a few kg of IVF bloat. Silver lining and all that.

Part_Mouse

t2d what huge rollercoater your on, I hope tommorow brings possitve news.