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Does my Mum love me? (not respecting fear of stuff)
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Yes I expect my Mum to change her life, because I'm her son, shouldn't she love and care about me
I will make the suggestion about cleaning thanks but she spends hours a week doing it, she is a bit OCD about cleaning
Your mum expects you to change your life if you love and care for her - same argument!0 -
Yes I expect my Mum to change her life, because I'm her son, shouldn't she love and care about me
I will make the suggestion about cleaning thanks but she spends hours a week doing it, she is a bit OCD about cleaning
She should love and care for you, yes.
But you're also a grown man, you aren't a baby, or a small child.
She's your mother, shouldn't you care and and love her?
You expect your mother to change things about herself, when you can't even be bothered to make small changes yourself, like get up earlier. THat's extremely unreasonable of you, all taking from her, and not giving anything back....much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.0 -
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If I ever become a millionaire or my Mum needs help, I'm going to just remember her of how she made me feel. That is one day I hope can happen, I know its bad taste, but I hope it makes her realise how she made me feel
If I move out, I can see it ending the relationship for goodThis is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com0 -
Yes I expect my Mum to change her life, because I'm her son, shouldn't she love and care about me
I will make the suggestion about cleaning thanks but she spends hours a week doing it, she is a bit OCD about cleaning
You need to help yourself.
You cannot expect other people to pander to you when you are too lazy or selfish to help yourself.Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.0 -
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I disagree, deodorant is butane which is a nasty gas. also why are cancer rates so high, all these perfumes and chemical cosmetics. I hate the invasive, chemical smells, honestly, I feel like I'm going to explode
If you'd lived 1,000 years ago, you wouldn't probably have had to worry about getting cancer at some later stage in life
BEcause the chances are extremely strong you would already have died, during birth, childhood, at war, falling off things, from disease, all sorts of things....much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.0 -
I sympathise - I couldn't stand the very strong perfumes from the 1980s - 1990s. dislike turned to a real allergy - I have had some bad asthma attacks from proximity to these perfumes, and even now find some perfumes cause me to have an attack (especially that sodding awful linx!).
I too think you need to move out - It isn't your mum doesn't love you - but she doesn't really realise just how this is affecting you.
I rarely buy a proprietary cleaning product - there is no need, vinegar, bicarb and good old fashioned soap can clean most things -and for the rest - a magic sponge doesn't give off toxic fumes.
come down to old style for tips on using them.
someone said how will I ever get a partner to have children, you are the type of person (if you're a woman) whom its possible with, thankfully there are other people with similar thoughts out thereThis is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com0 -
If I ever become a millionaire or my Mum needs help, I'm going to just remember her of how she made me feel. That is one day I hope can happen, I know its bad taste, but I hope it makes her realise how she made me feel
If I move out, I can see it ending the relationship for good
I really do hope you are 12 years old, not 22. Because the "that'll make her sorry!" is a reaction you should have left behind before you started to shave!...much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.0 -
If I ever become a millionaire or my Mum needs help, I'm going to just remember her of how she made me feel. That is one day I hope can happen, I know its bad taste, but I hope it makes her realise how she made me feel
If I move out, I can see it ending the relationship for good
Is it so wrong of me to think that she might breath a sigh of relief???0
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