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Tesco dumped my shopping and ran!

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  • melancholly
    melancholly Posts: 7,457 Forumite
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    this is descending into madness!

    MSE has NEVER been the type of place to end up with a shouting match about what may or may not have been thought by different people. i think the OP had a fair point, but even when i disagree with people there is NO NEED AT ALL for the smug and agressive comments levelled on here.

    i'm actually ashamed in case a new user reads this thread and thinks it's what MSE is all about.
    :happyhear
  • Dave_Brooker
    Dave_Brooker Posts: 1,128 Forumite
    this is descending into madness!

    MSE has NEVER been the type of place to end up with a shouting match about what may or may not have been thought by different people. i think the OP had a fair point, but even when i disagree with people there is NO NEED AT ALL for the smug and agressive comments levelled on here.

    i'm actually ashamed in case a new user reads this thread and thinks it's what MSE is all about.

    Nobody should be afraid of healthy vigourous debate!
    The money, Dave...
  • alwaysonthego_2
    alwaysonthego_2 Posts: 8,446 Forumite
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    Nobody should be afraid of healthy vigourous debate!

    I actually agree with you (for the first time):D , but at times it has been over the top. But as true mser's, there hopefully is no hard feelings between posters on this thread ;)
  • dangeroussports
    dangeroussports Posts: 1,245 Forumite
    Drowning babies!

    You couldnt get more extreme then that!

    I couldnt answer the door because :

    What if it was a axeman
    What if the babies drowned
    Im invalid
    Im deaf
    I thought it was Aliens


    Or

    Becuase he turned up early.


    lol....
  • alwaysonthego_2
    alwaysonthego_2 Posts: 8,446 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Drowning babies!

    You couldnt get more extreme then that!

    I couldnt answer the door because :

    What if it was a axeman
    What if the babies drowned
    Im invalid
    Im deaf
    I thought it was Aliens


    Or

    Becuase he turned up early.


    lol....

    your only adding fuel to the fire, behave yourself ;)
  • dangeroussports
    dangeroussports Posts: 1,245 Forumite
    Nah not really,.....there is no fire. The thread isnt really important is it.
  • cazziebo
    cazziebo Posts: 3,209 Forumite
    Drowning babies!

    You couldnt get more extreme then that!

    I couldnt answer the door because :

    What if it was a axeman
    What if the babies drowned
    Im invalid
    Im deaf
    I thought it was Aliens


    Or

    Becuase he turned up early.


    lol....
    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

    Made me laugh when there is nothing on the telly!
  • carolt
    carolt Posts: 8,531 Forumite
    WOW!!!!

    I have been away for nearly 2 days. When I left the thread it was on page 4, now it's on page 10!!! 184 posts!!!! I wasn't planning to comment further, but will just repeat some earlier points now lost in the mists of time (ie pages 1-4) for those who couldn't be bothered to read back that far to stop them posting incorrect assertions AGAIN.

    But firstly, as that interesting character Dave Brooker pointed out so astutely at 11.04pm yesterday evening (ie Friday night):

    It was a trivial event, and I'm amazed anyone would have bothered to report it to an internet forum.

    So why is he STILL posting about it???? If I, to whom the events described, have long since got over it and moved on, why can't he? I note that, over on another current thread, Can they really do this is it illegal??? the same Dave Brooker, I assume, is trying his hardest to wind up another poster. I leave others to decide whether he is a troll or not. Personally, for what it's worth, I just think he is a very sad, lonely individual who gets a peverse pleasure out of trying to wind people up. Sad, and I feel sorry for you Dave, I really do.....

    In fact, as I explained on page 4! :DTesco apologised profusely and refunded my delivery charge, so I am happy with that - if Tesco themselves think they were in the wrong, then those who defend their behaviour might like to consider if this is entirely sensible......:rolleyes:

    Kimevans - you have one child; I have 3. Believe me, if you ever have 3 you WILL find it harder work and you cannot just carry 3 kids downstairs with you to open the door while you let the delivery driver in! Indeed, there might well be those who suggest that parents such as yourself who deliberately leave their children to cry are bad parents. I wouldn't accuse you of that, however, as I firmly believe ALL parents have the right to bring up and look after their children in the way they see best (unless the child's health or safety are actually endangered, obviously) BUT would like and expect YOU to extend that same respect to me.

    Those who think that my first duty was to open the door are entitled to their opinion, of course. Indeed, as explained above ad nauseam, that IS what I did on all the previous times Tesco came early. But on this occasion it was not convenient.

    Put it this way, who do YOU think is more capable of waiting, a grown man (who should not even have been there for another half an hour and was in fact being paid £5 to turn up at a later time) or 3 small, overtired children, including a crying baby who could not possibly be expected to understand why mummy was going away?

    Those who think the needs of the grown adult should come first, to my mind have odd priorities - or dislike children. Thankfully we no longer live in the Victorian age and children are NOT always expected to take second place to adults and be seen and not heard etc. It was not what I was prepared to do.

    I really am NOT going to contribute on this thread any further, :shhh: as it really has gone on FAR TOO LONG!!!!.......

    Good wishes to all of you, :wave: especially Dave Brooker who I fear may need them most of all. :)
  • Dave_Brooker
    Dave_Brooker Posts: 1,128 Forumite
    carolt wrote: »
    Put it this way, who do YOU think is more capable of waiting, a grown man (who should not even have been there for another half an hour and was in fact being paid £5 to turn up at a later time) or 3 small, overtired children, including a crying baby who could not possibly be expected to understand why mummy was going away?

    Surely you've answered the door in their presence before??
    The money, Dave...
  • carolt
    carolt Posts: 8,531 Forumite
    GET A LIFE!!!!!!!!! :rotfl:
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