What's going on in this man's head?

Funky_Bold_Ribena

*max* wrote: »

Because he wants to get into your knickers.

...Because he only has to do it and he gets laid. Result!

[Deleted User]

Hi,

dilemma10 wrote: »

Why is this guy constantly texting me and initiating dinners and being so caring then? Argh?

because you are 'cosy' neighbour, when he gets 'another', don't feel too bad.

ValHaller

dilemma10 wrote: »

IWhat on earth do I do with him? Walk away...?

Well, OK, stuff is going on in his head. But is that important for the moment?

What is going on in YOUR head? This is really important to know, otherwise the discussion will limp around on 1 leg.

Others have said you look like a friend with benefits, it looks like that is what you have with this guy too.

19lottie82

Yeah, I'm sorry OP but he's only after one thing.

Stop pondering over the sweet talk and admit it to yourself.

I don't mean to sound rude but I don't believe the old "I don't want a girlfriend right now" line, if a guy meets someone he likes enough, he will want them to be his girlfriend.

If you can handle this no strings thing then fair enough but I don't think you can, otherwise you wouldn't have posted.

Stop giving it up every time he invites you for dinner and find someone who will treat you like you deserve x

tea_lover

You're a f*** buddy. To be fair to the guy he's been honest that he doesn't want anything more, so give up trying to read more into everything he says and does. You'll just drive yourself mad doing that.

Toxicity

If you're happy with how it is (truely happy, don't try and convince yourself you are) then enjoy.

However, if you want more from him and are not happy with the current 'arrangement' then you need to either be straight with him, tell him how you feel and ask for more, or walk away. The longer it goes on the worse it will be for you if/when it does end.

Bazey

[Deleted User] wrote:

you're a good neighbour

Awesome neighbour by the sound of it.

System

He misses the chase. He misses the sex and the female company but when push comes to shove he doesn't want commitment.

Distance yourself and when he comes running. Remind him that he wants the distance between you.

warehouse

Go on a date. His reaction will tell you whether this relationship is going to work or not.

Kynthia

He gets to have sex, companionship and fun but at the end of the day he doesn't like you enough to commit to you and he's told you that. One day he will drop you without a second thought and he won't think you have any reason to complain as he clearly told you he didn't want a relationship. If you're okay with that then great, but don't become emotionally invested in him.