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Torry_Quine

DUTR wrote: »

Is it wrong to masturbate?
Also it is not mentioned in the bible.

Lots of things aren't in the bible but we have discernment.

Gloomendoom

carrot-cake wrote: »

I turned the tables on my partner because I would purposely make sure my history contained naked men and he hated it! it really made him realise that its not nice to find!

Does everyone on here check their OH's browsing history?

My wife's history could be stuffed full of links to dwarves having it off with three legged gay donkeys but I wouldn't have a clue. I've never had the urge to check.

The same goes with mobile phones. Mine is turned off or mislaid most of the time and I am an absolute nightmare to contact at any time, not just at work. It doesn't mean I am up to no good. I just hate people ringing me up all the time... especially at work when I am supposed to be working.
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Better_Off_1983

I believe masturbation is a normal, natural activity. It makes you learn more about yourself and your partner.

My ex didn't do any mutual masturbation with me at all. He was DISGUSTED with how aroused I got as a woman. He didn't think it was normal to be that lubricated!! I am looking back know and I am definitely sure that he was a prude.

So, this just goes to show, that not all men are sex mad!!

Torry_Quine

Fosterdog wrote: »

Masturbation is a completely different issue altogether than !!!!!!. Somebody who finds !!!!!! disgusting can still enjoy masturbation, it is needed in most relationships as foreplay, unless you are the type of people constantly turned on with her being permanently wet and him permanently hard then masturbation is needed to prepare each others bodies for sex. Particularly if one partner is more turned on at the time than the other.

I'm more surprised and very impressed that you can have a satisfying sexual relationship with your partner without the need for either of you to either self masturbate or help each other out. I also feel slightly sad for you if sex for you does not involve anything other than penetration because you are both missing out on a whole world of pleasure from other acts.

I'm not about to give the details of my sex life on here but will say that there's more than you suggest.

Better_Off_1983

Gloomendoom wrote: »

Does everyone on here check their OH's browsing history?

My wife's history could be stuffed full of links to dwarves having it off with three legged gay donkeys but i wouldn't have a clue.

Gloomendoom wrote: »

That made me chuckle!

Calien27

Gloomendoom wrote: »

Does everyone on here check their OH's browsing history?

My wife's history could be stuffed full of links to dwarves having it off with three legged gay donkeys but i wouldn't have a clue. I've never had the urge to check.

:rotfl:

I willingly showed my partner once as he was curious about what I would get so "into"...two pages of seeing I'd watched either Disappeared or Snapped! Women Who Kill....he's never been curious again

carrot-cake_2

burnoutbabe wrote: »

no, nothing wrong with that, but if that is your wish and expected behaviour within marriage, it should be discussed beforehand. ie you should mention you don't approve at some stage when dating.

I'm sorry but I can't imagine going on a date with someone and saying oh by the way do you watch !!!!!!?

For me !!!!!! never crossed my mind until I found it on our computer.

carrot-cake_2

Gloomendoom wrote: »

Does everyone on here check their OH's browsing history?

My wife's history could be stuffed full of links to dwarves having it off with three legged gay donkeys but I wouldn't have a clue. I've never had the urge to check.

The same goes with mobile phones. Mine is turned off or mislaid most of the time and I am an absolute nightmare to contact at any time, not just at work. It doesn't mean I am up to no good. I just hate people ringing me up all the time... especially at work when I am supposed to be working.
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The only reason browsing history gets checked is if you suspect they are up to something though? Same with phones. Say you found your wifes phone in the bathroom for example and you innocently took it downstairs to her and she acted weird, grabbing it off you and looking all flustered. Or you asked her could you use it because you had misplaced yours and she said no and came up with some stupid excuse. Would you be suspicious?? Would you then be tempted to see whats actually in her phone? I think you would!

eschaton

Gloomendoom wrote: »

My wife's history could be stuffed full of links to dwarves having it off with three legged gay donkeys but I wouldn't have a clue.

Glad it isn't just me that likes that

burnoutbabe

carrot-cake wrote: »

I'm sorry but I can't imagine going on a date with someone and saying oh by the way do you watch !!!!!!?

For me !!!!!! never crossed my mind until I found it on our computer.

Dating leading to marriage, for a lot of people, would generally include sex. And it would come up in discussion then as part of "what do you like...".

Of course if it was a no sex before marriage, then I suppose its a totally different ball game and probably not discussed.