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  • DUTR wrote: »
    Wrong from who's perspective?
    A phrase I never really considered until I frequented this board is 'abusing and controlling'
    however it seems viewing legal adult content may leave the offended so, due to them not being in control of what and when pleases the viewer, I've only ever met one woman who was as ready for it as I was :o


    Well, from anybody's perspective. I just don't see any harm in somebody wanting to see it. (of course, assuming there is full consent and age limits are adhered to).

    Sex isn't just missionary position where the woman is expected to lie there and just force a little moan out at the end to let him know she's still awake. It's supposed to be gentle and rough and slow and fast and hard and teasing and everything in between, you're supposed to be so into what's happening that you have absolutely no space in your head for who you are, what you look like, where you stop and the other person begins - !!!!!! gives people sounds and images that they enjoy, maybe ideas they could use to benefit the person they are with - I don't understand why this is seen as being wrong.


    Maybe I'm the weirdo. It doesn't do a huge amount for me personally, but if the guy I'm with likes it, then that makes it a whole lot easier for me, because I know that there'll be little things that will be really appreciated - like putting my hair up or making eye contact :D
    I could dream to wide extremes, I could do or die: I could yawn and be withdrawn and watch the world go by.
    colinw wrote: »
    Yup you are officially Rock n Roll :D
  • Peater
    Peater Posts: 521 Forumite
    ha! Well spotted.

    Of course, i couldn't possibly comment. Ahem.
  • Jem8472
    Jem8472 Posts: 1,373 Forumite
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    I hate to point this out but if you are having trouble accepting that your OH watches !!!!!! and masturbates you will have to get used to the fact that when your kids hit that age they will start looking at !!!!!! and masturbating. Are you going to get rid of them when this starts happening?
    Jeremy
    Married 9th May 2009
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    Jem8472 wrote: »
    I hate to point this out but if you are having trouble accepting that your OH watches !!!!!! and masturbates you will have to get used to the fact that when your kids hit that age they will start looking at !!!!!! and masturbating. Are you going to get rid of them when this starts happening?

    At the age they can look at it legally, they will be classed as adults.
    However from todays news reports, it will be barred at ISP level unless the subscriber opts out, this may take place within the next 24 months.
  • Jem8472
    Jem8472 Posts: 1,373 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    But the kids might look at it before they are legally allowed to!

    Also there is a way around everything. You cannot 100% block anything.
    Jeremy
    Married 9th May 2009
  • Netwizard
    Netwizard Posts: 830 Forumite
    Jem8472 wrote: »
    But the kids might look at it before they are legally allowed to!

    Also there is a way around everything. You cannot 100% block anything.

    Exactly. Virgin ISP have blocked the pirate bay, but have you seen how many other sites there are to aid getting round this block? Hundreds!!
  • Calien27
    Calien27 Posts: 244 Forumite
    There's always going to be ways to get around any blocks put in place.

    If I want to use Pirate Bay I just turn on the WiFi hot spot on my phone and use that.
  • aileth
    aileth Posts: 2,822 Forumite
    Sex isn't just missionary position where the woman is expected to lie there and just force a little moan out at the end to let him know she's still awake.

    Ahhh come on, surely I'm not the only one who has done this sometimes!!! Or am I....:(
  • alleycat`
    alleycat` Posts: 1,901 Forumite
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    DUTR wrote: »
    At the age they can look at it legally, they will be classed as adults.
    However from todays news reports, it will be barred at ISP level unless the subscriber opts out, this may take place within the next 24 months.

    Meanwhile in the real world kids will get around it or go to their mates house whos parents don't give a fig about having their internet filtered.

    The PM and the media are conflating multiple issues to make it feel like they are doing something.

    Google and the other search engines are going to tell him to, politely, ram it sideways (as they did when they got all hot and bothered about "Tax").
  • LouLou
    LouLou Posts: 2,135 Forumite
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    alleycat` wrote: »
    Meanwhile in the real world kids will get around it or go to their mates house whos parents don't give a fig about having their internet filtered.

    The PM and the media are conflating multiple issues to make it feel like they are doing something.

    Google and the other search engines are going to tell him to, politely, ram it sideways (as they did when they got all hot and bothered about "Tax").
    I do agree that there will always be proxies and websites can reappear as quickly as they are nuked: just look at *cough* torrent sites.

    However, we could assume that younger fingers won't be able to navigate their way to the XXX sites as easily as older children will?
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