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tonycottee · 27 July 2013 at 10:01PM

tandydadder wrote: »

. If I thought that my behaviour hurt him in any way, this would be addressed.

What if he asked you to address your unreasonable view on him looking at !!!!!!?

neverdespairgirl · 28 July 2013 at 12:13PM

Padstow wrote: »

Don't be so daft and wisen up!
ETA, You're as blind as those who come here to state that their beloved would never cheat!

I'm neither blind nor daft.

lostinrates · 28 July 2013 at 12:59PM

Padstow wrote: »

Don't be so daft and wisen up!
ETA, You're as blind as those who come here to state that their beloved would never cheat!

Well, some people don't cheat, so that's a bit of a strange leap.

Using legal !!!!!! is fine, but its a strange justification for adults to use the teenage line ' but everyone else does it (mum:D) because it shouldn't and doesn't need that justification. Just as not using it needs no justification. Its perfectly possible to have a normal and healthy sexual life without using !!!!!!. I think. Its probably harder to get to adult hood in a mainstream world without ever seeing !!!!!! ion any context whatsoever, but not impossible.

eschaton · 28 July 2013 at 2:51PM

This thread is going on forever and OP is nowhere to be seen

They signed up last Saturday, posted for little over 3 hours and then disappeared never to be seen again.

Troll?

jacques_chirac · 28 July 2013 at 2:55PM

eschaton wrote: »

This thread is going on forever and OP is nowhere to be seen

They signed up last Saturday, posted for little over 3 hours and then disappeared never to be seen again.

Troll?

Maybe she decided to give it a go, and now can't tear herself away?

tinkerbell28 · 28 July 2013 at 3:20PM

Ohh this topic of conversation always comes up at drunken BBQ's :rotfl:

From what I gather, a lot of men and women watch !!!!!! and enjoy it. Some seem to have a shift as they get older, and become more politically minded. There is a political side to !!!!!!, believe it or not.

I also find that in older men, who suddenly find themselves with a baby daughter, go off it rapidly as !!!!!! is becoming more extreme. Just my observations from social watching :rotfl:

Anyway the root of the issue, is it a political issue, or a jealousy issue? I'm suspecting the latter, in which case you need to talk about it properly with a councillor, on your own and joint. If you're feeling insecure in yourself, then being eaten alive on here will just make you feel crap.

tandydadder · 29 July 2013 at 2:17AM

tonycottee wrote: »

What if he asked you to address your unreasonable view on him looking at !!!!!!?

I find this rather condescending actually. I find it unreasonable that he used !!!!!! INSTEAD of having sex for real. If you had read my post fully you would have noticed that I was condemned to a sexless marriage (about 12 months) while he was happily fulfilled with nothing but !!!!!!. Some couples use !!!!!! as a healthy adjunct to their sex lives. In our case, his use of !!!!!! escalated, while our sex life dwindled. A bit of compassion would go a long way on this thread I feel.

Valli · 29 July 2013 at 9:37AM

Perhaps,. OP, rather than going through the thread deleting your posts, some of which have been quoted anyway, and are there for all to see, you consider contacting the MSE Forum Team, and ask if they could delete your thread and, maybe, close your account while you're at it?