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Gavin83

Carl31 wrote: »

Men need to release. How they do that can vary, but they can't stop it. Even vicars can't, no matter how hard they want to

I disagree, I think men can ignore it but to be honest I'm not that disciplined. I prefer to go along with what my mind wants, be it sexual or something else entirely.

I probably started watching !!!!!! at about the age of 13. In my case at least it started off fairly mild and slowly grew more graphic and hardcore as I became bored of what I had been watching. It leveled off at about the age of 18. I've seen most types of (legal) !!!!!! and my tastes may be considered extreme by some peoples tastes and I can see why some would have a problem with it. It's like drugs some people can live a normal life with a habit while some will spiral out of control.

As someone who started young and has watched some fairly hardcore stuff, I still respect women and I'm currently in a very healthy relationship. I can seperate the reality of sex in a relationship and what I've seen in !!!!!! and I don't feel it's really affected me. I do question if some of my preferences would exist if I hadn't of watched !!!!!! but I don't consider this an issue to be honest, both me and my girilfriend are happy with our life together.

Please don't think that men watch !!!!!! because they desire other women though, it simply isn't like that. It's just a quick easy completely disconnected release, nothing more. I have never cheated on my girlfriend and if one of the women from a !!!!!! movie came out of the screen I would shoo her out of the door. To be honest if I was single I wouldn't wish to date a !!!!!! star and I'm guessing most men feel the same.

If a woman really has a problem with it then I guess thats her choice and she either needs to deal with it or end the relationship. I do honestly believe there is no other way as I see !!!!!! watching as one of them things a man won't stop doing just because he got caught.

Thing is, I could easily cover my tracks so no one could tell I was browsing !!!!!! but frankly I couldn't be bothered with the deception. It really isn't that hard though so either they want to get caught, they're stupid or they're really IT illiterate.

Judi wrote: »

I'd feel pretty worthless if my man used !!!!!! to get stimulated rather than use me.

Would you be ok about it if he asked you first and you weren't in the mood?

For what it's worth I think watching !!!!!! instead of having sex with a willing partner is extremely unhealthy.

Peater

Gavin83 wrote: »

For what it's worth I think watching !!!!!! instead of having sex with a willing partner is extremely unhealthy.

On the whole, i think your post is concise and accurate and should give the deluded ladies of these fora a glimpse into the male mind so hopefully they may be more understanding.

However, the quote i have highlighted, i do have a slight disagreement with. There has been occasions where i have 'felt the urge' and had a willing partner on hand (so to speak) but i have chosen to have one off the wrist instead purely out of practicality.

From un-buckle to wipe-up, the tug can take a mere 5-10mins - That's why its so brilliant. Making lurrrrve would take up a hell of alot more time as i like to make sure they are 'happy' before i get my kicks.

Basically, sometimes, a bloke just needs a w*nk. It's not a slight against our partners.

LouLou

I think that's the core of the differences between the sexes: Generally, men can disconnect sexually, women find it much tougher to do so, and emotions are paramount.

Maybe I'm wrong!

Gavin83

Peater wrote: »

On the whole, i think your post is concise and accurate and should give the deluded ladies of these fora a glimpse into the male mind so hopefully they may be more understanding.

However, the quote i have highlighted, i do have a slight disagreement with. There has been occasions where i have 'felt the urge' and had a willing partner on hand (so to speak) but i have chosen to have one off the wrist instead purely out of practicality.

From un-buckle to wipe-up, the tug can take a mere 5-10mins - That's why its so brilliant. Making lurrrrve would take up a hell of alot more time as i like to make sure they are 'happy' before i get my kicks.

Basically, sometimes, a bloke just needs a w*nk. It's not a slight against our partners.

Thanks, I tried to be as honest and open as possible without being too graphic, although I may have been a bit borderline at points.

I did actually think about this scenario when I typed my post. Sometimes we're both feeling the urge but don't have the energy for full blown sex but there are plenty of other things to do that are quick and easy.

I can fully understand why someone would sometimes just want a quick release by themselves though.

DUTR

LouLou wrote: »

I think that's the core of the differences between the sexes: Generally, men can disconnect sexually, women find it much tougher to do so, and emotions are paramount.

Maybe I'm wrong!

Nope you are not wrong on this debate.

Gavin83

LouLou wrote: »

I think that's the core of the differences between the sexes: Generally, men can disconnect sexually, women find it much tougher to do so, and emotions are paramount.

Maybe I'm wrong!

I think it's just more a case of men being more visual while for women it's all in the head. Hence why men prefer watching !!!!!! movies while women prefer books or their imagination, generally speaking anyway.

Jojo_the_Tightfisted

Still wondering what exactly is so wrong about somebody watching !!!!!!?

LouLou

Gavin83 wrote: »

I think it's just more a case of men being more visual while for women it's all in the head. Hence why men prefer watching !!!!!! movies while women prefer books or their imagination, generally speaking anyway.

I can be visual, but that would involve giving away too much information:rotfl:

DUTR

Jojo_the_Tightfisted wrote: »

Still wondering what exactly is so wrong about somebody watching !!!!!!?

Wrong from who's perspective?
A phrase I never really considered until I frequented this board is 'abusing and controlling'
however it seems viewing legal adult content may leave the offended so, due to them not being in control of what and when pleases the viewer, I've only ever met one woman who was as ready for it as I was

marisco_2

Peater wrote: »

From un-buckle to wipe-up, the tug can take a mere 5-10mins - That's why its so brilliant. Making lurrrrve would take up a hell of alot more time as i like to make sure they are 'happy' before i get my kicks.

Basically, sometimes, a bloke just needs a w*nk. It's not a slight against our partners.

When you say 'they' how many women are we talking about? No wonder making lurrrve takes longer than 5-10 mins. What a stud