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DUTR

Judi wrote: »

I'd feel pretty worthless if my man used !!!!!! to get stimulated rather than use me.

I'd feel pretty upset if i knew he masturbated when I was 'available'.

But would you tell him that he cannot ever look at any, or that he cannot explore his own body?

geoffky

Valli wrote: »

You poor misguided fool.

Some !!!!!!, as you should know, is totally unnacceptable. Such as !!!!!! involving 'young' people.

Equally some !!!!!! features acts which are 'less than healthy'.

So maybe a blanket defence of '!!!!!!' isn't a sensible stance?

I see what you did there.....Who mentioned kid !!!!!!? You!
Nice try but you have customised what you want it to mean....Bored?

Humphrey10

Some of these replies on this thread make me feel like I've fallen into a time warp to the 50s or something.
At work the other day someone mentioned 50 Shades of Grey, and it turned out I was the only person not to have read it! !!!!!! is normal, no-one should be ashamed of watching/reading/looking at it (assuming all performers are adults and willing participants etc).

If you have specific unusual requirements like not masturbating, not watching !!!!!!, or whatever, the time to discuss them is early on in the relationship not after you are married! Do people not talk to each other before they get married?

System

DUTR wrote: »

But would you tell him that he cannot ever look at any, or that he cannot explore his own body?

No I don't tell him anything.

Valli

geoffky wrote: »

I see what you did there.....Who mentioned kid !!!!!!? You!
Nice try but you have customised what you want it to mean....Bored?

If YOU are going to defend !!!!!! you need to clarify what is 'acceptable' and what is not.

And YOU mentioned KID - NOT me.

Up to yet we have not been enlightened as to the type of !!!!!! the OP's husband is viewing. !!!!!! ranges from 'What the butler saw' to stuff I would prefer not to think about, with, I assume, a whole load of stuff I (personally) have never even thought of!

geoffky

Valli wrote: »

If YOU are going to defend !!!!!! you need to clarify what is 'acceptable' and what is not.

And YOU mentioned KID - NOT me.

Grow up......What do want a 2000 word piece on the acceptable boundaries of !!!!!!? Drunk?

Valli QUOTE "Such as !!!!!! involving 'young' people".

Valli

geoffky wrote: »

Grow up......What do want a 2000 word piece on the acceptable boundaries of !!!!!!? Drunk?

Well given my post has more clarity than yours, maybe you're the drunk one?

Young could refer to 'pedo' !!!!!! or to !!!!!! involving younger people.

Perhaps I have touched a nerve?

Like I said - a blanket defence of !!!!!! is not a sensible stance.

geoffky

I could also refer to a lot of things involving !!!!!! and could do a list of 30 to 40 different types but that was not warranted on here due to the discussion taking place and your intervention was likewise..
I feel your post was just a hand grenade...See what damage you could do with it...But you chose the wrong one...

Valli

geoffky wrote: »

I could also refer to a lot of things involving !!!!!! and could do a list of 30 to 40 different types but that was not warranted on here due to the discussion taking place and your intervention was likewise..
I feel your post was just a hand grenade...See what damage you could do with it...But you chose the wrong one...

Well, if you care to look back at my first post in this thread I started out by saying 'some !!!!!!'...

We all have our boundaries. What we don't know is where the OPs husband is getting his kicks, exactly.

Edit, sorry, second post. I posted twice in quick succession.

geoffky

For the last time...!!!!!! is a generic term and everyone knows that..
If the op had said my hubby loves anal !!!!!! then we all then could of said our piece but she did not and has not so we are left with the term "!!!!!!"
but you wanted to hijack that term and then get me to define my term....
I think you have a cheek.
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