Confused and unhappy

Ck1

Just looking to get this off my chest just feeling confused and emotinal at the moment.
Have been married 10 years have 2 children with an ex
Hubby has 2 children to an ex.
Hubby had snip 15 years ago.
We are both in our forties and just getting our life doing
The things we want to do ie travel
I have just found out I'm pregnant it is defo my hubby's.
I have never cheated
Hubby has hit the roof threw his tea at me and stormed out.
I have told him to see his dr and get a test.
He knows I haven't cheated on him what has upset me
Is how he has blamed me and his attitude towards me
Sorry for the rant
Just feel so alone right now

System

He'll be back when he's calmed down.... then maybe you can talk it through.

It must be one heck of a shock for both of you.

Blackpool_Saver

bloody idiot, he needs to grow up

Blackpool_Saver

Divorce/csa/peace, if that's his attitude. Sorry but I take a very hard line with childish men

System

How can it be your fault when he's the one who's vasectomy has failed? He's just letting off steam......unfortunately its you that's pregnant so your in the firing line.

mum2one

its going to be a shock for both of you, it does happen that the tubes come back together, - at the moment theres going to be a 1001 things going round in his head,

His is simple to get sorted, - the GP will need a sample - this get tested and show that the swimmers went into action.

How you feel or go ahead from is, another discussion, but you need to take care, and look after yourself.

Hope you get it all sorted xx

unholyangel

My gran used to say the only safe sex is no sex, she mustve been right!

OP, I'm sorry your OH acted the way he did. Hopefully he calms down/gets his head out his !!! and sees it as a blessing in disguise.

Congratulations to you both, however....even if he does see sense....I'd be making it clear that throwing his tea at you is not an acceptable way for any adult to behave - let alone someone you're in a relationship with.

meritaten

his point of view is that he had vasectomy - therefore it isn't his. OP swears it is. what an awful situation! vasectomies do fail, its rare but it happens. she needs to sit him down and explain that and and offer to take the DNA test if that will convince him.

Ck1

Thanks for all your replys I was shocked at his reaction and when I needed him most he just walked out.
It has come as a big shock I don't think it has sunk in yet I just don't know what to feel.

marisco_2

Did you get hurt during his outburst? Not emotionally but physically?

Ck1

No he never hurt me I was just stunned at his reaction and just felt a bit shaken up.
I feel like an emotional wreck tbh