marrige falling apart .don't know what to do

crying_inside

pearl123 wrote: »

From the beginning OP couldn't be bothered to explain his problem properly. Numerous sentences make to no sense at all. Plus he's contradicted himself so many times.

This must be one of the dumbest trolls ever! lol
Either that or it is an extremely drunk person!
My vote goes for a troll!

Right . My head is in a mess. . How do you expect someone who is in this position .try and explain properly ?? . I am confused . Bewilderded . Also I am usibd a mobile phone . Try using a mobile phone with a Samsung s3 on this site. Try correcting errors. . Please dont judge me on something u have not done
So. I have come here under another name. Under pressure. I have 24 k debt a 20 k mortgage. My wife is supposedly ill. Has taken from me all I have. Out of the blue walked out. I can't get no information fRom anywhere. I'm desperate .and you want . Proper conversation ??

crying_inside

Trevor john.
When my kids stayed over on Thursday night. I told my wife I was going to make an appointment the next day. To see the doctor. That I will need drop kids off early.
She said why do I need to see the doc ?? Um what's going on ? I said.
When I got my appointment. And to avoid confusion. Or accusation that I lie. I took my kids over the road. At just before 8 am. There was no answer. So I then took my kids to the Drs surgery and I got an appointment for 9.
I then took my kids back . Told my wife I have an appointment . And she said . Don't say too much. You know how things get around. He knows my mother the family. My thought was .what ??
I deliberately used her name to the doctor . Hoping I would find more. His answer was no way. But ... as I previously mentioned. She would be dead by now .ok.

crying_inside

You know something. Just because I had knocked this out as fast as I could . Before I lost it again. I'm being Called a troll a liar. A fastatist. A bully . A fanatist. A alcoholic.
What can I say ??

daffie

She wanted you to keep her illness quiet but 'the pressure was so great' you told your kids and her daughter?! It's time you took responsibility for your actions instead of blaming others and/or alcohol. Sort yourself out before you even think about trying to get back together.

crying_inside

Just found out the truth . Now I got to try and work out what the he'll I'm going to do to get her back. Sort out her problems . How the hell do I sort this out. She lied . Left me with nothing. And she wants me to walk away . How do I sort this mess out. Where do I begin . I love her . She has literally left me with 24 k debt and a mortgage. . Mot is due in car and tax due end of month . More dam stress.

System

Tell her to sort her own problems out you've got enough of your own.

crying_inside

She will not have any problems . This is the problem . She will live with what she has got kids. Benefits. What more will she need.

Now I just . I do not know. I don't know . I'm backed into a corner . Don't know what to do . What hurts more is that I knew it . I let her chose my path . My destiny.I hope if she has any conscience . She will let me back into her life.
I know it sounds crazy. She has manipulated me for 14 years. She has stole money from me. Taking off credit cards. . Wiped me out. She can help me get back up she caused this. Why should I suffer now . Why why why.

crying_inside

It's always the same. She takes . But gave some back. . Take a bit more. Etc etc and for This reason I stayed with her. That .and the guilt I had in leaving my 2 kids back home. It ripped me to shreds. . So why should I do it again . Why why why . Please someone help me here .

crying_inside

How the hell do I win her back. I know I'm being stupid and I know I'm a fool . But I just don't Have any other option now. I can't sell up. I'll have nothing left. Crazy sit seems better the devil you know .

Georgiegirl256

:T I heard you've just been nominated for this years Booker Prize?!