marrige falling apart .don't know what to do

thorsoak

And now there's an unborn grandchild??????

When is the sexual abuse going to rear it ugly head???

Errata

It's a weird husband who doesn't talk to the family GP about their wife's cancer! And an even weirder GP who refuses to discuss it with them.
Still ........... there's nowt as queer as folks, as MSE threads demonstrate.

crying_inside

Um how can I talk with her gp . I saw him on FridAy. His words I can't discuss. I could be anyone at the end of the day and I respect what he said. He can't comment.and as for sexual abuse. What the hell are you presuming . I have a 24 year old step son. Who has a gf. Who is pregnant. Sexual abuse ?? Get real .

crying_inside

Yes my wife was hit for 6 when she had chemo. She did loose a small amount of hair..but I have never seen anyone on chemo. Who has had 3 doses over 9 weeks..how could I compare. .

Georgiegirl256

crying_inside wrote: »

Yes my wife was hit for 6 when she had chemo. She did loose a small amount of hair..but I have never seen anyone on chemo. Who has had 3 doses over 9 weeks..how could I compare. .

Well if this IS true, how can you possibly doubt that's she actually has cancer or not?

They don't just dish it out willynilly to anyone wanting to fool their partner....

Your story is full of contridictions, and THIS is why people are doubting you.

paulineb_2

busiscoming2 wrote: »

If you share the same GP as your wife surely if you go and see them and tell them your situation they will know whether she is lying to you or not.

I know they cannot discuss other patients problems but as your problem seems to stem partly from knowing the truth they may be a little more forthcoming to help you.

They wont disclose anything due to data protection and quite rightly so.

Errata

paulineb wrote: »

They wont disclose anything due to data protection and quite rightly so.

Data protection has nothing to do with it, patient confidentiality maybe a concern.

coolcait

paulineb wrote: »

They wont disclose anything due to data protection and quite rightly so.

Errata wrote: »

Data protection has nothing to do with it, patient confidentiality maybe a concern.

Whatever the exact legal reasons behind it, I totally agree that the medical profession should never disclose personal medical information to a third party.

busiscoming2

coolcait wrote: »

Whatever the exact legal reasons behind it, I totally agree that the medical profession should never disclose personal medical information to a third party.

I didn't mean that they would discuss it with the OP, just that if she were his GP's patient too then the GP would know if she was lying to OP. GP may then say something referring to his wife's cancer which could make it clearer to OP, IYKWIM.

Having said that I see that she has had Chemo, so why would she be lying?!!

crying_inside

Because I was not with her when she had the chemo . She wanted to go alone.
Is it possible that she could of had a cat scan and results meeting in the same morning .less than 2 hours. ?