Affair, can't forget

waccoe_2

Good comeback, I walked straight into that one. Lol.

waccoe_2

But then you spoilt it with your editing.

SuzieSue

waccoe wrote: »

But then you spoilt it with your editing.

Sorry, I didn't mean to upset you, but you must have known when you fell for your wife that lots of other men would find her attractive too.

waccoe_2

yes but just because you are attractive doesn't have to mean you in off and have an affair surely?

SuzieSue

waccoe wrote: »

yes but just because you are attractive doesn't have to mean you in off and have an affair surely?

It depends on the woman of course, but a lot of attractive women have had men at their beck and call all their lives because of their beauty. Beautiful women are treated very differently from ordinary women. If you didn't know that, then I can understand how you didn't realise that she would be likely to stray.

shoppaholic_returns

I know what you are saying suzie, but attractive women don't have to stray.

I personally think it is down to having a certain type of personality, not how you look. And which ever way you slice it and dice it if sexual attraction isn't there for BOTH parties then you will have a problem. As the dissatisfied party,if they are so inclined will look elsewhere.

SuzieSue

shoppaholic_returns wrote: »

I know what you are saying suzie, but attractive women don't have to stray.

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No, they don't have to but they have many more opportunities to simply because more men find them attractive because they are beautiful.

shoppaholic_returns

SuzieSue wrote: »

No, they don't have to but they have many more opportunities to simply because more men find them attractive because they are beautiful.

Whilst I agree, lookers are no different from others, if happy they don't stray, opportunity or not.

SuzieSue

My husband's ex was beautiful and she had several affairs. His son has had several beautiful girlfriends but is now settled with someone who is nice looking but not beautiful and told his dad that he has learnt from his dad's mistakes and will not be going out with beautiful women again.

SuzieSue

shoppaholic_returns wrote: »

Whilst I agree, lookers are no different from others, if happy they don't stray, opportunity or not.

No one can be permanently happy in a relationship. There are always ups and downs otherwise it isn't a proper relationship. During the downs, beautiful women have a lot more opportunity to stray.