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Am I doing the right thing?

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  • Be prepared , you MAY find you miss her at times ( but don't resume any contact )

    When or if you miss her remember it is the few 'good bits' of the relationship you are missing or simply being with someone ie the companionship , hugs , some nice treatment on your Birthday etc like you said

    It's okay to miss those things coz you deserve those things but from the RIGHT person ( and a nice person! ) lol

    We are human and from time to time ( especially when I am feeling really low ) I sometimes miss my exes even though I feel like kicking myself for it lol , but oftentimes it is not actually THEM I am missing but some ASPECT of the relationship eg the companionship or hugs , so it is never a reason to resume contact , just a part of being human and it will pass! :j
  • Danni-R
    Danni-R Posts: 641 Forumite
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    It sounds like we've dated the same girl!

    Get rid. It hurts, no one is denying that, but in the long run the name calling, the mood swings turn to the odd birthday card being thrown at your head as you didnt spend enough time admiring it, the odd push here and there.

    Its not pleasant. but at least you physically have distance.

    Chin up and think 'at least it was only 6 months!'.
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  • Primrose
    Primrose Posts: 10,712 Forumite
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    edited 20 May 2013 at 5:37PM
    Seriously mentally unstable. Get out of the relationship now before she drags you down with her. Relationships don't have to be like this. Stop wasting your time and money on her.Oh, just caught up with your decision to quit. Very sensible even if you do feel a little sad. Just remember the few good times and remind yourself that there will be plenty more of these when you find the right person to be with.
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