FINALLY DONE IT: Tayforth's new beginning

Kittykow

Alpha58 wrote: »

I'm ashamed to say that I work with quite a few men who work on the principle that "while the cat's away" (I work outside the UK for fairly long stretches) and although it's not for me to judge how others live, it sickens me. My idea of fun is a night on skype with the family and a bottle of wine (Mrs Alpha and I frequently have online toasts!)...rambling a bit but the point is that there are a lot of bast*rds out there but there are also some decent men as well. Don't tar us all with the same brush!

I totally don't, I'm sure there are a lot of lovely blokes out there but unfortunately the rotters do manage to find some of us like flies round....oh hang on I'm likening myself to horse poo there :embarasse .... Whoops, ouchy

Ps i'm glad there are some good guys though, thanks Alpha!!

Kittykow

tayforth wrote: »

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

Afraid so.
Man it's worrying that it doesnt make me go :eek: :eek: anymore really?! Found out too much the hard way.


Haha (i cant work out how to do double quotes yet) but that 'beating em off with a stick' comment cracked me up ...yeah!!

tayforth

spirit wrote: »

Have you heard anything from your ex re the car, your sister's wedding or anything along the lines of 'I tried to get in the house to collect xyz but the locks appear to have been changed'?

Not a thing, thankfully! If I never hear from him again it'll be too soon.

Kittykow wrote: »

I totally don't, I'm sure there are a lot of lovely blokes out there but unfortunately the rotters do manage to find some of us like flies round....oh hang on I'm likening myself to horse poo there :embarasse .... Whoops, ouchy

Ps i'm glad there are some good guys though, thanks Alpha!!

Lol at the horse poo comment!!! :rotfl:

Kittykow wrote: »

Afraid so.
Man it's worrying that it doesnt make me go :eek: :eek: anymore really?! Found out too much the hard way.


Haha (i cant work out how to do double quotes yet) but that 'beating em off with a stick' comment cracked me up ...yeah!!

Are you on your phone or computer? If the latter, just press 'shift' and '2' together xx

jenhug

Really pleased it all went so well. Desperate for a look at your sisters dress even though we don't know you!

AlwaysAllie

spirit wrote: »

Glad it's not just me!

Me too x tears of relief and happiness.

tayforth

jenhug wrote: »

Really pleased it all went so well. Desperate for a look at your sisters dress even though we don't know you!

It was very simple silk crepe. Quite 1930s style. Absolutely stunning. :A

AlwaysAllie wrote: »

Me too x tears of relief and happiness.

Thanks so much You're so lovely, I'm welling up here just thinking about all the goodwill and kindness that's been shown to me by you all xx

tayforth

Just had a friend round (GF of one of the ex's friends). She was lovely. We just chatted. I asked her if she had heard and she said yes. I didn't criticise the ex, just said that I was happy with my decision and felt at peace. Then we talked about everything under the sun.

She and her BF are moving in together in a couple of months and will be very close to here, it'll be nice to have them round the corner as they're both lovely. I feel reassured that at least some of our mutual friends want to stay in touch with me.

jenhug

Sounds to me that people may have known what he was like and just kept quiet.

tayforth

jenhug wrote: »

Sounds to me that people may have known what he was like and just kept quiet.

Perhaps. I don't really mind either way, I'm not out to turn his friends against him. I'm just happy not to have to see him.

When she left, I closed the door, came back in, cleared away the teacups and just sat enjoying the silence. I really like being alone, it's better than I thought it would be. Obviously, I was unhappy with my ex, so anything has to be better than that. But it's just nice in general.

duckeggblue

tayforth wrote: »

Perhaps. I don't really mind either way, I'm not out to turn his friends against him. I'm just happy not to have to see him.

When she left, I closed the door, came back in, cleared away the teacups and just sat enjoying the silence. I really like being alone, it's better than I thought it would be. Obviously, I was unhappy with my ex, so anything has to be better than that. But it's just nice in general.

Told ya! Xx perfect peace, your an inspiration to others.:T