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You have such a low opinion of men honey... You really do... My brother is reading this over my shoulder, and hes a dumbfounded as i am at some of the comments on here...
It is not about having a low opinion. I am just a realist. Men are programmed to sleep around. It is not their fault.0 -
Why would you have been dead?
SuzeI don't think I'm a ladies man....just a person who values friendships be it male or female. My longest friendship is with a female I met 30+ years ago at College...she, her hubby & 2 boys are now in Alaska.
4 years ago they were in the UK visiting family & friends (including me & my wife) Her eldest boy being a precocious (sp.) 'teenager' asked us each seperately on the QT why we hadn't 'got it' together...we gave the same answer....which was? 'I've never ever hated myself that much'....honestly if we had ever gone there...one of us would be so so...well...DEAD!I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Savings & Investments, Small Biz MoneySaving and House Buying, Renting & Selling boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the Report button, or by e-mailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.0 -
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It is not about having a low opinion. I am just a realist. Men are programmed to sleep around. It is not their fault.
Does your hubby know you think like this?You lied to me Edward. There IS a Swansea. And other places.....
*I have done reading too*
*I have done geography as well*0 -
It is not about having a low opinion. I am just a realist. Men are programmed to sleep around. It is not their fault.
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: so it's not their fault if they cheat on their wives?The stupid things you do, you regret... if you have any sense, and if you don't regret them, maybe you're stupid. - Katharine Hepburn0 -
You still don't seem to get it. The decision is not just based on if they're there and a woman's there. A whole other lot of factors come into play. Is he happy in his current relationship/work, is he single, has he not had any action for a while, is he drunk. It's not as simple as I think you like to think it is.
And for all this talk about "we're just friends, he doesn't fancy me" - a lot of men who sleep with women don't actually fancy the woman, they just want sex!
SuzeBut thats my point!!! I dont know about the men you know, but the men im mates with CHOOSE not to act like male sl@gs....I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Savings & Investments, Small Biz MoneySaving and House Buying, Renting & Selling boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the Report button, or by e-mailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.0 -
Exactlly! As ive said, Im a full on 'cheeky banterer' as are all of my mates... we like a bit of 'nudge nudge wink wink' innuendo... but we're not a pack of wild animals desperately trying to copulate!!
I would not be happy if you spoke to my husband like that. I think it's disrespectful.
And I CERTAINLY wouldn't be happy if he spoke to you like it!(AKA HRH_MUngo)
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Imagine someone holding forth on biology whose only knowledge of the subject is the Book of British Birds, and you have a rough idea of what it feels like to read Richard Dawkins on theology: Terry Eagleton0 -
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: so it's not their fault if they cheat on their wives?
Well it is their fault as they should have the sense NOT to put themselves in a position in which cheating would arise. Like being alone with females.
If I am on a diet I don't walk down the chocolate aisle at the supermarket. Same thing.0
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