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  • tru
    tru Posts: 9,138 Forumite
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    SoozieSoo wrote: »
    If it is more than just polite chat..yes.
    What about men I've known for years and years?
    Bulletproof
  • Rachie_B
    Rachie_B Posts: 8,785 Forumite
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    zoeleigh wrote: »
    I spoke to my OH about this this morning, his immediate response was 'he's probably sha@ging her then'.

    .

    my hubby reckons he / she wants a 3some
    :eek: :rolleyes:
  • SoozieSoo
    SoozieSoo Posts: 118 Forumite
    vik6525 wrote: »
    But its not difficult is it? If you love someone, you're faithful. End of!

    If only it were that simple. I am sure 99% of married men who cheat love their wives. Love and sex are very seperate for men.
  • vik6525
    vik6525 Posts: 16,347 Forumite
    SoozieSoo wrote: »
    How do you explain the HUGE !!!!!! industry and prostitution then?

    Blimey... I like a bitta !!!!!! now and again:rolleyes: But im not some weirdo. its just an outside stimulai...
    You lied to me Edward. There IS a Swansea. And other places.....

    *I have done reading too*
    *I have done geography as well*
  • gelato_cat
    gelato_cat Posts: 2,970 Ambassador
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    It doesn't matter if we have manners and decency - that's down to how the person CHOOSES to act. You have agreed that men are genetically different to women so why do you find it so hard to understand?

    Suze

    vik6525 wrote: »
    Oh im sorry, but thats just bonkers!!!! Maybe genetically men are different to women, but this isnt the stoneage... I dont know a single bloke who wants to 'go forth and multiply'!! We have manners and decency these days...
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  • vik6525
    vik6525 Posts: 16,347 Forumite
    SoozieSoo wrote: »
    If only it were that simple. I am sure 99% of married men who cheat love their wives. Love and sex are very seperate for men.

    You have such a low opinion of men honey... You really do... My brother is reading this over my shoulder, and hes a dumbfounded as i am at some of the comments on here...
    You lied to me Edward. There IS a Swansea. And other places.....

    *I have done reading too*
    *I have done geography as well*
  • gelato_cat
    gelato_cat Posts: 2,970 Ambassador
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    I think there's trust, and there's trust. Then there's those who think that the boundaries they set within their relationships should be the same ones that others adhere to.

    Say a man doesn't mind his wife flirting with other men cos he trusts her. Well, some people have "open" relationships where they go and sleep with other people. What if, one day, the wife comes home and says she wants to sleep with other men? What's the problem? "I'm in a relationship with YOU, I'm just having SEX with the other guy"...

    Suze

    Labman wrote: »
    Then I think the wife/husband who is not happy/is uncomfortable, needs to address their problem!....TRUST!
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  • sleepymy
    sleepymy Posts: 6,097 Forumite
    It must be nice for some of your husbands to know you've such a low opinion of their ability to control themselves!
    The stupid things you do, you regret... if you have any sense, and if you don't regret them, maybe you're stupid. - Katharine Hepburn
  • vik6525
    vik6525 Posts: 16,347 Forumite
    Suzey wrote: »
    It doesn't matter if we have manners and decency - that's down to how the person CHOOSES to act. You have agreed that men are genetically different to women so why do you find it so hard to understand?

    Suze

    But thats my point!!! I dont know about the men you know, but the men im mates with CHOOSE not to act like male sl@gs....
    You lied to me Edward. There IS a Swansea. And other places.....

    *I have done reading too*
    *I have done geography as well*
  • tiff
    tiff Posts: 6,608 Forumite
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    Can I respectfully ask how old you are Vik?
    “A budget is telling your money where to go instead of wondering where it went.” - Dave Ramsey
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