meeting husbands female friend!

gelato_cat

Well, it does take two to have an affair

Suze

sleepymy wrote: »

So that means that 1 in 10 of the mothers posting on this tread could be big ho's

All right fess up

SoozieSoo

Suzey wrote: »

Surely you don't need it pointed out that men are different from women - ever heard of testosterone? They ARE more likely to be "sex crazed loonys [sic]" than women are.

Fidelity isn't in men's genetic makeup - they're programmed to go forth and multiply, so having one mate isn't natural to them.

Suze

Thats why I have much respect for men who stay faithful. It must be very difficult for them.

tru

SoozieSoo wrote: »

If he likes your company he is interested.

So the only reason men speak to me is because they want to sleep with me?

vik6525

Suzey wrote: »

Surely you don't need it pointed out that men are different from women - ever heard of testosterone? They ARE more likely to be "sex crazed loonys [sic]" than women are.

Fidelity isn't in men's genetic makeup - they're programmed to go forth and multiply, so having one mate isn't natural to them.

Suze

Oh im sorry, but thats just bonkers!!!! Maybe genetically men are different to women, but this isnt the stoneage... I dont know a single bloke who wants to 'go forth and multiply'!! We have manners and decency these days...

SoozieSoo

tru wrote: »

So the only reason men speak to me is because they want to sleep with me?

If it is more than just polite chat..yes.

SoozieSoo

vik6525 wrote: »

Oh im sorry, but thats just bonkers!!!! Maybe genetically men are different to women, but this isnt the stoneage... I dont know a single bloke who wants to 'go forth and multiply'!! We have manners and decency these days...

How do you explain the HUGE !!!!!! industry and prostitution then?

gelato_cat

Comments like this wouldn't be accepted in my workplace - whoever made them. It wouldn't be seen as professional.

Suze

burnoutbabe wrote: »

yep, we'd need to define flirting really. In my view, friendly flirting would be just complimenting people on things, and being interested or making jokey comments.

Like a girl at work, me and her where going on a work trip, she says we'll get the train at 9 rather than 8 "so we both get another hour in bed". My immediate response was "thats the best offer i've had for ages".

perhaps i should worry she won't speak to me anymore as she thinks i have given up on men and want her

tru

Bloody hell, am I supposed to be grateful to mr tru for being restrained for the past 19 years???

vik6525

SoozieSoo wrote: »

Thats why I have much respect for men who stay faithful. It must be very difficult for them.

But its not difficult is it? If you love someone, you're faithful. End of!

sleepymy

vik6525 wrote: »

Exactlly! As ive said, Im a full on 'cheeky banterer' as are all of my mates... we like a bit of 'nudge nudge wink wink' innuendo... but we're not a pack of wild animals desperately trying to copulate!!

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SoozieSoo wrote: »

I have trust isues with all men! All men would cheat if they thought 100% their wife would not find out. My husband is lovely, he really is, but I am not stupid enough to think that if some leggy blond offered it to him on a plate he would say no.

I find that offensive and really narrow minded. My husband has been offered it on a plate and refused and has told me about it himself. When some of the younger members of the footie team were trying to coax him with "we'll not say anything, she'll never know" he responded with "but I will". So I find your summing up of all men pretty insulting.