Should I tell her?

Lucy_Lastic

She's not posted since 23 November - should we send out a search party? :eek:

pinkshoes

OMG, I wanna know what happened! Someone send her a PM!

Charlotte1988_2

any news? hope it worked out ok!

Lucy_Lastic

I've sent her a PM. Hope she's OK :eek:

starrybee

I can't believe I read to the end only to get no update! Boo!

amyloofoo

Me too! Hope OP's okay, even if she chooses not to update.

VK-2008

if i were you i would tell her, just word it along the lines of when i was out the other day i saw mr x at such and such a place if it wasnt him must of been a sneaky twin he has. just bring it up in conversation, dont over dramatise it and then see where it goes,
how would you feel if it was your oh, you would want to know, plus if you mention it in passing you are not accusing
a good friend will know you have their best interests at heart

tenke

People have got to finish their stories !!! :D:rotfl::rotfl:

victory

tenke wrote: »

People have got to finish their stories !!! :D:rotfl::rotfl:

They have since moved onto their next story;)

Lilith1980

ellies_angel wrote: »

Drove me nuts after I split up with my ex, the amount of people who told me they had seen him with other woman while we were married.
I would much rather have been told. He was hardly disreet and I felt such a mug. One person did, I thanked her and with that knowledge waited until the time was right for me and said goodbye

Same happened to me, my ex-husband was cheating and it turned out a lot of my friends knew. I understand in some ways that they probably didn't want to get involved, but I would rather they had told me.

So, I guess this experience biases my response OP, I think you should tell your friend, but like some others have suggested, try and be 'light-hearted' or 'casual' about it and say "Oh, I saw so-and-so the other day" and see what happens.

EDIT: oops, didn't realise how long ago this thread started :rotfl: