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Should I tell her?
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Tell her.
I was cheated on by my ex husband.
I've been cheated on by my recent ex.
In both cases I had suspicions but they always had explanations and I had no absolute proof, so I had to take their word for it (and you want to trust the person you love, even if there's been one too many 'coincidences').
I really wish someone had caught them in the act/seen something like this that couldn't be so easily excused, and told me. I wouldn't have shot the messenger.[STRIKE][/STRIKE]I am a long term poster using an alter ego for debts and anything where I might mention relationship problems or ex. I hope you understand
LBM 08/03/11. Debts Family member [STRIKE]£1600[/STRIKE], HMRC NI £324.AA [STRIKE]137.45[/STRIKE]. Halifax credit card (debt sold to Arrow Global)[STRIKE]673.49[/STRIKE]Mystery CCJ £252 Santander overdraft £[STRIKE]239[/STRIKE] £0 .0 -
Where is the OP with an update? (Please.)0
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Out of interest lets play this one out - You tell the wife. This is what happens.
Her - Someone saw you at a hotel with another woman.
Him - Really - which hotel
Her - Where were you
Him - Golf with dad ( 9 holes - not 18 - followed by an hour in the room)
Her - Well I will call your Dad -
Him - OK.
Her - ???
Even if Dad says he wasnt playing Golf he will say he went but alone, or he went for a walk, or a drive, and this is a case of mistaken identity.
This then puts your mate in a horrible position. And its easier to lose a friend than a spouse, house, kids, and car.
IF you want to do it - do it anonymously. Protects your friendship and then if she is suspicious she can confirm it by checking his mobile or his credit card, or calling hotel re missing earring.0 -
what happened?0
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Husband went round OP's house the night before and did her in ....
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OP bottled it and is too embarrassed to tell us ...
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Any updates?0
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Laura? Laura?
Should we report her mising :eek:
Not been heard of since she went to visit her friend and spill the beans.............................0 -
She's probably under the patio...0
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Wow that's a tough one! I hope it went ok.
But as you said, you're not accusing him of anything you are just saying what you saw. Hopefully she is a good friend and will understand your not trying to rock the boat.0 -
I've just read this whole thread hoping for an update at the end..where is it???0
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