Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

thehappybutterfly

why else would someone watch it? For the acting? The scintillating conversation? The special effects? All perfectly normal reasons for watching any movie. But not !!!!!!. !!!!!!'s used for one thing and one thing only. To get turned on.

Lotus-eater

thehappybutterfly wrote: »

why else would someone watch it? For the acting? The scintillating conversation? The special effects? All perfectly normal reasons for watching any movie. But not !!!!!!. !!!!!!'s used for one thing and one thing only. To get turned on.

Do you count 50 shades as !!!!!!?

thatgirlsam

thehappybutterfly wrote: »

why else would someone watch it? For the acting? The scintillating conversation? The special effects? All perfectly normal reasons for watching any movie. But not !!!!!!. !!!!!!'s used for one thing and one thing only. To get turned on.

Yes, to get turned on... SHOCK, HORROR!!!

It doesn't mean a man can't get it up without it!

I have watched !!!!!! loads of times with various boyfriends, sometimes it was just a laugh and sometimes it was a turn on.

So.. what's sooo bad about that?

thatgirlsam

And I have to say.. I think there are a LOT of men who say they don't watch !!!!!! for the fear of upsetting their OH

Ivrytwr3

What's wrong with a bit or role play at home? The wife plays the stripper/dancer:

a. Solves the OP's problem of him wanting to visit.
b. Saves a fortune!

There is one minor flaw - this obviously depends if the wife looks like Sofia Vegara or Nora Batty.

If the OP tries and likes the idea, i've got a batman suit i could loan them!

PrincessPlaty

thehappybutterfly wrote: »

Nor does my hubby - it just doesn't float his boat. Thankfully. I'd be mortified if he needed !!!!!! to get it up.

thehappybutterfly wrote: »

why else would someone watch it? For the acting? The scintillating conversation? The special effects? All perfectly normal reasons for watching any movie. But not !!!!!!. !!!!!!'s used for one thing and one thing only. To get turned on.

Exactly it doesn't mean they need it to get turned on, did you ever think that maybe they want to get turned on?

timberflake

Anyone that has a problem with their fella stepping foot into a strip club is insecure imo. I private dance is another thing entirley, but saying no to stepping inside one just smells of insecurity.

I recently went on a stag do and my OH told me that although she didn't like the idea she was fine with me going to a strip club, but no private dances. I thought she was a star for saying it as most women would have had a problem with it.

thatgirlsam

Wanting to get turned on?? Tut. Disgusting.

mumoftwins

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

The amount of blokes that go in and the girls try to talk to them and they say 'sorry love i'm not interested' far outweighs the number of men that do have dances!

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That's probably because, in the public area, they can watch the dancers who have been paid for by other men!

Lotus-eater

To flip the question, I would have no problem at all if my wife wanted to go to a male strip club, if she came back a bit more randy than she went, then :j go me

If she needed it every night to be able to sleep with me, then I'd point out maybe she was with the wrong person.

On the other side, if my wife had a problem with me doing the same, I would be extremely annoyed........ :rotfl: