Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

thatgirlsam

shellsuit wrote: »

Nooo, it's not a bad thing, it's just you are the exact spit of her and if I didn't know you weren't her, I'd think you were her, if that makes sense!



You don't though, you don't believe that there are men who don't look at !!!!!!.

And not everyone has a kink, I don't have one and hubby doesn't have one.

I do beleive there must be men that don't look at p0rn, I just don't think that they are as common as some women think!

Fair play if neither of you has a kink - you sound like a good match (I don't mean that nastily)

PrincessPlaty

VestanPance wrote: »

Yes I fully support looking after the poor, ill and those that require help in tough times, while not supporting murder based on government lies and propaganda.

How is a single mum poor if she is able and willing to go out and work to support her family albeit it be doing something that you don't agree with?

Your arguments do not make sense.

Tropez

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

By the way its not just men that go to strip/ lap dancing clubs.

Indeed. I'd never been to one before my partner decided to take me.

adouglasmhor

mumoftwins wrote: »

I think there are two different issues here: Lap dancing Clubs versus Male Strippers.

Firstly, when you get a load of women together at a Male Stripper, it is all so ridiculous that the women are shrieking with laughter. There is no real 'turn on' as it is all hilarious.

Many years ago the younger adouglasmhor was paying his way through university by working as a doorman, in one hotel I worked at they had hen nights with male stripper troupes - I was groped (on one occasion so hard my tackle was black and blue), propositioned, had women come up to me in shops who had seen me at work and try to chat me up. If there is no real turn on why was an ugly big lad like me getting so much attention?

PrincessPlaty

adouglasmhor wrote: »

Many years ago the younger adouglasmhor was paying his way through university by working as a doorman, in one hotel I worked at they had hen nights with male stripper troupes - I was groped (on one occasion so hard my tackle was black and blue), propositioned, had women come up to me in shops who had seen me at work and try to chat me up. If there is no real turn on why was an ugly big lad like me getting so much attention?

Thats a good point, having worked at pubs, bars and clubs for the past 10 years you see this regularly. I even know women that go out regularly to try to 'pull' a doorman. :eek: Not because they want to have a good night out purely because they wanted a doorman as a boyfriend. Doesn't matter what they look like its just the fact that they are a doorman.

Bizarre if you ask me.

Lotus-eater

adouglasmhor wrote: »

If there is no real turn on why was an ugly big lad like me getting so much attention?

Some women have no taste?

:rotfl:

Tropez

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

Thats a good point, having worked at pubs, bars and clubs for the past 10 years you see this regularly. I even know women that go out regularly to try to 'pull' a doorman. :eek: Not because they want to have a good night out purely because they wanted a doorman as a boyfriend. Doesn't matter what they look like its just the fact that they are a doorman.

Bizarre if you ask me.

Not as bizarre as the women who try to start relationships and marry serial killers on death row!

PrincessPlaty

Tropez wrote: »

Not as bizarre as the women who try to start relationships and marry serial killers on death row!

This is true! Another thing I don't understand. Maybe we should teach them to lap dance instead to take their minds off of it? :rotfl:

Tropez

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

This is true! Another thing I don't understand. Maybe we should teach them to lap dance instead to take their minds off of it? :rotfl:

I think some women are attracted to the image of the strong "alpha male" and depending on the level of that attraction go to some of these bizarre extremes. Not that I really believe that the likes of Richard Ramirez are anything more than parasitic scum but I suppose it is how they are perceived.

Our security staff don't work for clubs/pubs but many of our front liners get quite a bit of attention from the fairer sex.

And yes, I like your idea. We should discuss this. You could give lessons and I could judge performances, purely in the interests of science, you understand.

VestanPance

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

How is a single mum poor if she is able and willing to go out and work to support her family albeit it be doing something that you don't agree with?

Your arguments do not make sense.

Her only option is stripping? What sort of example is she setting her child by stripping for cash?