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Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

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I have a particular opinion on strip/lap dancing clubs, but just thought it'd be interesting to see what other people thought about them.

Ladies, would you be comfortable with your OH going to a lap dancing club and paying for a private dance, or would that be a big no, no? Would it be ok if they went along to the club and didn't get a dance?

Just curious to see the general consensus?:)
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  • meer53
    meer53 Posts: 10,217 Forumite
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    Big fat NO !
  • Tropez
    Tropez Posts: 3,696 Forumite
    Well I'm not a lady, but my partner has taken me to a lap dancing club before. I didn't even suggest it.
  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    I'd have to say I wouldn't have a problem with it to be honest.
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    No, no, a thousand times NO.
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • A no from me too!
    :confused: I NEED TO CHANGE MY BAD LUCK RUN!!!!:confused:
  • BitterAndTwisted
    BitterAndTwisted Posts: 22,492 Forumite
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    I'd have a major problem with my fella even thinking about going to a lap-dancing club never mind setting foot in one!
  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    I wouldn't be OK with either situation.
    Tank fly boss walk jam nitty gritty...
  • liney
    liney Posts: 5,121 Forumite
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    A stripper is one thing, but a private dance is another thing entirely IMO.
    "On behalf of teachers, I'd like to dedicate this award to Michael Gove and I mean dedicate in the Anglo Saxon sense which means insert roughly into the anus of." My hero, Mr Steer.
  • littlepinky84
    littlepinky84 Posts: 283 Forumite
    Wouldnt mind him going to the club but not the private dance
    I don't suffer from insanity, I enjoy every minute :whistle:
  • Poppy9
    Poppy9 Posts: 18,833 Forumite
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    I'm with little pinky. Going to the club is fine but not having a private dance unless it was for something like his stag night or even a big birthday and organised by friends for a laugh.
    :) ~Laugh and the world laughs with you, weep and you weep alone.~:)
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