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System

jayII wrote: »

As for one night stands, friends with benefits, swinging and so on, I like the idea of them but I suspect the reality would leave me cold. I think I'm extremely lucky that I've only ever been drawn to having sex with someone I'm in an exclusive emotional relatioinship with.

I've done all of the above :eek: and can safely say i much prefer the intimacy of having sex in a relationship now..:o

Ames

harshal99 wrote: »

I no longer have a sex life, as I gave up on relationships a few years ago. Added with the fact I don't do the friends with benefits type thing, or one night stands. Not my scene at all.

"With something like sex for instance I see no fun in watching some other bloke get his rocks off. I can see fun in me getting mine. I have a brain and an imagination. I may see or read something that gives me an idea. For instance in a few weeks time I'll be competing in an Ironman triathlon. I read about the event, but have no interest in reading about someone elses experience of completing one. I'd rather create my own."

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I've seen plenty of spam on this site, but an escort agency is a first :rotfl:

jayII wrote: »

There can't be many worse thoughts than the idea of paying someone for sexual favours or privileges. I'm no prude but I can't see the attraction at all.

As for one night stands, friends with benefits, swinging and so on, I like the idea of them but I suspect the reality would leave me cold. I think I'm extremely lucky that I've only ever been drawn to having sex with someone I'm in an exclusive emotional relatioinship with. A couple of my past partners had different ideas about the meaning of 'exclusive' but they were soon ex-partners.

Desperation? Knowing that you'll never get to have sex any other way? A lot of disabled people have to pay because they never get to meet anyone for a 'normal' relationship.

jayII

xXMessedUpXx wrote: »

I've done all of the above :eek: and can safely say i much prefer the intimacy of having sex in a relationship now..:o

I don't think there's anything wrong with doing those things, unless it involves hurting or harming someone (such a being unfaithful to a partner).

But, I do think relationship sex will be more fulfilling for most people. :cool:

I_know_my_ABC_and_my_CMYK

no problem with either

System

jayII wrote: »

I don't think there's anything wrong with doing those things, unless it involves hurting or harming someone (such a being unfaithful to a partner).

But, I do think relationship sex will be more fulfilling for most people. :cool:

Well i was single for the ONS and FWB (the onyl person that got hurt was me...bah i've learnt my lesson now!) and the swinging thing was something i went along with in an attempt to win my ex back (it failed..and actually im kind of glad it did).

It took me a long time to realise that sex does not always equate to someone having feelings for you

jayII

Ames wrote: »

I've seen plenty of spam on this site, but an escort agency is a first :rotfl:



Desperation? Knowing that you'll never get to have sex any other way? A lot of disabled people have to pay because they never get to meet anyone for a 'normal' relationship.

I didn't mean to be judgemental, I was talking on a purely personal level.

I don't think there's anything wrong with paying for sex per se, if it meets a person's need and no abuse or exploitation is involved. I believe that sexuality is such a personal thing that each adult has to find their own path through it.

jayII

xXMessedUpXx wrote: »

Well i was single for the ONS and FWB (the onyl person that got hurt was me...bah i've learnt my lesson now!) and the swinging thing was something i went along with in an attempt to win my ex back (it failed..and actually im kind of glad it did).

It took me a long time to realise that sex does not always equate to someone having feelings for you

All that counts is that you've learnt from your experiences and now know more about what is important for you. Life is about growing, changing and learning and mistakes are part of that process.

I'm so glad you've ditched the loser and found a good 'un. :cool: