Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

PrincessPlaty

jayII wrote: »

PP not able to answer for herself? That's a good one. :rotfl:

I can't see where I've claimed that, but maybe you know something I don't.

You're attempting to debate a statement she never made, just as you've claimed I said something I never did.

Oh well, never mind, live and love goes on and all that jazz.

Oh dear is he still going? :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Have pm'd you my dear long time no speak! i think after today I may well be back with avengance (sp?)

thatgirlsam

janninew wrote: »

Surely what her OH thinks about is slightly different to having a naked lady dancing on his lap! Just out of interest are the ladies totally naked or do they keep knickers on? Never been to a strip club before!

Has anyone on here ever been to a male lap dancing club, I've never seen one before!

I'm really not sure it IS actually all that different

I've been wondering if it is to with jealous personality types?

Some women cannot bear it if their OH so much as looks at another female and that is a jealous personality. I know someone who checks all he OH's internet history, phone etc.

thatgirlsam

jayII wrote: »

PP not able to answer for herself? That's a good one. :rotfl:

I can't see where I've claimed that, but maybe you know something I don't.

You're attempting to debate a statement she never made, just as you've claimed I said something I never did.

Oh well, never mind, life and love goes on and all that jazz.

Bit of a fantasist.

No, not like that!

Lancslass1982

At this particular one it depended what they paid for...they paid for nude!

Just to add, I have no problem with my OH watching !!!!!!, going to a strip club, going out with his mates and talking to other girls. I know he checks out other girls and I know this is totally normal. I check out other men for God's sake. I am not a crazy, control freak.

What I draw the line at is these seedy clubs, where girls are walking around practically nude, flirting with the men and being suggestive, in order to get them to buy a dance. I object to my partner having a private lap dance. That is all a little too real for me and I don't want that in my relationship. The only person who should be that close to my boyfriend, naked, is me. If he was single then of course, go right ahead, but he's not and for me, he crossed the line. Just as I would have crossed the line had I touched the stripper at the hen do, overtly flirted suggestively with him, or let him take me somewhere private for a personal dance.

If other couples don't mind that kind of thing, then that is completely their choice and if they're both in agreement, then good for them!

VestanPance

thatgirlsam wrote: »

I don't think anyone would get a rise out of you would they?

You seem rather het up about the whole thing!

Aw poor didums did your joke backfire on you?

jayII

janninew wrote: »

Has anyone on here ever been to a male lap dancing club, I've never seen one before!

Nope, it's not something I'd go out of my way to do. I'd go as part of a hen do (not mine :eek:) or something if my friends were going, but that would be for the company and the giggles rather than anything else.

I'd also be at the back! Luckily I'm quite small so hiding behind friends is easy.

janninew

thatgirlsam wrote: »

I'm really not sure it IS actually all that different

I've been wondering if it is to with jealous personality types?

Some women cannot bear it if their OH so much as looks at another female and that is a jealous personality. I know someone who checks all he OH's internet history, phone etc.

I would have to disagree I think a real, live naked person gyrating on his lap is different to thinking about a pretty lady in the Street! If its no different why pay extra money for the dance? they must be getting 'something' from it surely?

I would dislike my OH to have a private dance, but don't mind in the slightest about !!!!!! etc. I just think a private dance is quite intimate (and a waste of money!)

Tropez

Lancslass1982 wrote: »

If other couples don't mind that kind of thing, then that is completely their choice and if they're both in agreement, then good for them!

Quite right.

People have their own ideas of what is acceptable and unacceptable in a relationship so you can only hope to find someone who shares your ideals.

thatgirlsam

VestanPance wrote: »

Aw poor didums did your joke backfire on you?

Oh yeh, totally backfired!

Well done for spotting :rotfl::rotfl:

You really do seem like a Gentleman, I must say

VestanPance

jayII wrote: »

PP not able to answer for herself? That's a good one. :rotfl:

I can't see where I've claimed that, but maybe you know something I don't.

You're attempting to debate a statement she never made, just as you've claimed I said something I never did.

Oh well, never mind, life and love goes on and all that jazz.

Her link wasn't all men watch !!!!!!? That wasn't her argument? If not then maybe she should quality control her links.