Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

ginnimm

Lancslass1982 wrote: »

I have a particular opinion on strip/lap dancing clubs, but just thought it'd be interesting to see what other people thought about them.

Ladies, would you be comfortable with your OH going to a lap dancing club and paying for a private dance, or would that be a big no, no? Would it be ok if they went along to the club and didn't get a dance?

Just curious to see the general consensus?:)

I just think it's inappropriate for your OH to do that. So disrespectful to you. If he wants to behave like a single guy......also behind the scenes of these places...so much stuff goes on...trafficking women...drugs etc. Not good. (in my opinion)

thatgirlsam

larmy16 wrote: »

VestanPance I rarely come on this site anymore, but just happened upon this thread and I think you sound absolutely gorgeous. A man with morals, principles and intelligence - what a combo.

These sheep (sorry to insult sheep) are just the result of some very rich pornographers loving seeing people degrade themselves while they count their wads of money and watch relationships crumble.


Poor thatgirlsam seems to never have got out of the infantile stage of life having to look at other peoples privates to get turned on!

:rotfl::rotfl:

Oh don't feel sorry for me! I have an extremely healthy relationship. One where neither party has to feel like there is anything to hide.

I'm guessing you don't get turned on by privates or other such disgusting things. The mind boggles!!

Tropez

xXMessedUpXx wrote: »

I should add !!!!!! doesn't bother me, its not the same thing. If it was virtual reality !!!!!! (not sure that exists :rotfl: or something then i might feel differently.

Well there's simulated PoV videos, and... instructional clips... which are presented as more personalised than the more voyeuristic, conventional !!!!!!.

And I did see something once about a special chair that some webcam girls can use where the viewer can control vibrations and some... poking... remotely.

raven83

Gloomendoom wrote: »

"I'm sexy and i know it..."

lovinituk

ginnimm wrote: »

also behind the scenes of these places...so much stuff goes on...trafficking women...drugs etc. Not good. (in my opinion)

Jeez!! Someone's been watching too many US dramas!! Do you know this for a fact do you? I'm sure there are some extra curricula activities going on at some of them but I reckon there are more drugs being sold in more pubs around the country than lap dance clubs!! Do you think we should boycott all pubs too, just in case!?!

Tropez

ginnimm wrote: »

I just think it's inappropriate for your OH to do that. So disrespectful to you. If he wants to behave like a single guy......also behind the scenes of these places...so much stuff goes on...trafficking women...drugs etc. Not good. (in my opinion)

Perhaps in Eastern Europe but in the UK because of the severe licensing restrictions in force very little trafficking goes on at strip clubs and those few where trafficking has taken place are rarely advertised to Joe Public.

Most women who are trafficked and forced into the sex industry in the UK end up in brothels, largely due to the fact that they are illegal and as such there is no licensing of workers.

Skinto_7

ginnimm wrote: »

I just think it's inappropriate for your OH to do that. So disrespectful to you. If he wants to behave like a single guy......also behind the scenes of these places...so much stuff goes on...trafficking women...drugs etc. Not good. (in my opinion)

I think you have been watching too much TV, unless these girls are masters at local accents the only trafficking going on is from one end of the city to the other!!!!!

Each to their own, but just because something isnt for you, shouldnt give you license to make outlandish generalisations!!!!

balletshoes

cottonhead wrote: »

I wouldnt mind my husband going to a lap dancing club - the naked girl thing doenst bother me.
I would be bothered if he wasted a load of money that could be better spent though.
Also I think its funny that men will actually part with hard earned money to see a girl dance about naked ? !! How funny is that ? !
Guys are just more visual I guess. So long as he didnt meet her afterwards who cares. She is just a cheap thrill.

yep, i agree there, if there were any nuts to be chewed over this situation it would be over OH blowing a couple of hundred quid on a dance, rather than spending it on me .

balletshoes

Tropez wrote: »

Well there's simulated PoV videos, and... instructional clips... which are presented as more personalised than the more voyeuristic, conventional !!!!!!.

And I did see something once about a special chair that some webcam girls can use where the viewer can control vibrations and some... poking... remotely.

blimey :eek: - the things you learn eh?

Tropez

balletshoes wrote: »

blimey :eek: - the things you learn eh?

Indeed. National Geographic can be very educational!