Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

amyloofoo

I'd be absolutely fine with either, depending on context. If my OH is out with a group of friends and they want to go to a club and get a dance then that's fine - I've done it myself and it's an opportunity to go out to a quiet club, where you're going to get no hassle and enjoy a few drinks and dances with friends and pretty ladies.

However, if I found out he was going by himself / always seeing the same dancer / damaging our finances by going regularly then it would become a problem. I think context is everything in cases like this.

OH and I are going to a burlesque club in a couple of weeks and I fully expect both of us to enjoy ourselves

jayII

VestanPance wrote: »

Her link wasn't all men watch !!!!!!? That wasn't her argument? If not then maybe she should quality control her links.

If I remember correctly, the link cited a tiny study in which all the participants had, at some point in their lives, viewed !!!!!!.

In my world that doesn't equate to "all men" or to "do watch".

jayII

larmy16 wrote: »

VestanPance I rarely come on this site anymore, but just happened upon this thread and I think you sound absolutely gorgeous. A man with morals, principles and intelligence - what a combo.

These sheep (sorry to insult sheep) are just the result of some very rich pornographers loving seeing people degrade themselves while they count their wads of money and watch relationships crumble.


Poor thatgirlsam seems to never have got out of the infantile stage of life having to look at other peoples privates to get turned on!

Don't mince your words, will you! :rotfl:

It's a shame VP has sworn off relationships, you sound as though you're trying to catch him.

thatgirlsam

jayII wrote: »

Don't mince your words, will you! :rotfl:

It's a shame VP has sworn off relationships, you sound as though you're trying to catch him.

They'd make a lovely couple... trying not to get turned on by each others privates

jayII

thatgirlsam wrote: »

They'd make a lovely couple... trying not to get turned on by each others privates

I like privates. :j :j

OH says I'm a bad girl. :eek: :rotfl:

thatgirlsam

jayII wrote: »

I like privates. :j :j

OH says I'm a bad girl. :eek: :rotfl:

Naughty but nice?

mrsrwallace

i have no objections to lapdancers or the job they do, they provide entertainment for many men and women. however, due to a serious lack of self-esteem on my part i couldn't handle my OH looking at real naked women up close and enjoying it....no! i'd be worried he'd compare me to them and be disappointed. i don't mind him looking at !!!!!!, i quite like that myself but that's not real if you know what i mean? a lapdancer would be up close and personal, real flesh etc lol!

geoffky

I was in baltimore in the states at my cousins wedding and him and his wife took me to one of those strip places the day after they married. i left and they stayed..:eek:

jayII

thatgirlsam wrote: »

Naughty but nice?

Something like that... :cool:

mumoftwins

janninew wrote: »

Surely what her OH thinks about is slightly different to having a naked lady dancing on his lap! Just out of interest are the ladies totally naked or do they keep knickers on? Never been to a strip club before!

Has anyone on here ever been to a male lap dancing club, I've never seen one before!

At the one I went to with my ex they were totally naked and inserting their fingers into various orifaces!!!!