Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

larmy16

thatgirlsam wrote: »

They'd make a lovely couple... trying not to get turned on by each others privates

Baa baa goes the sheep thatgirlsam!:rotfl::rotfl:

thatgirlsam

larmy16 wrote: »

Baa baa goes the sheep thatgirlsam!:rotfl::rotfl:

Pipe down barmy larmy

janninew

mumoftwins wrote: »

At the one I went to with my ex they were totally naked and inserting their fingers into various orifaces!!!!

I'm sorry but that sounds gross!! I'm sure somebody will be along to say its no different to watching !!!!!!, but that to me is going to far in a strip club! I don 't have a problem with strip clubs but i would hate my daughter to strip naked for money when she grows up!

System

balletshoes wrote: »

in what way is it not the same thing to you? Because thats why I wouldn't have a problem with my OH going to a lapdancing club or having a private dance - as I think it is the same thing as !!!!!!. The private dancer doesn't fancy him, she's not having sex with him, he can't touch her .... so wheres the difference?

!!!!!! is an image on a screen. Nothing more. Its hard to explain why it seems differnt to me (and him, he agrees)

An actual naked woman there is the flesh? That to me is just different. The women in the !!!!!! aren't in the same room, arent in close proximity. Obv strippers try and make the guy feel as though they want them. Its more intimate. And even if most have a look but dont touch policy there are ones that dont, and thats putting tempatation right in his face. I think hed resist but he's still a young hot blooded male so you never know

Not that it matters anyway as my bf isn't keen on !!!!!! either :rotfl:

dizsiebubba

thatgirlsam wrote: »

I know someone who checks all he OH's internet history, phone etc.

I think more women do this than they care to admit... i have friends who swear they wouldn't but at some point during a drunken breakdown they admit they had at least once...

Uniscots97

ShAnE wrote: »

Were you both teenagers at this time?
Seems very immature way of acting throughout the whole ordeal.
My other half wanted to go and watch Magic Mike, should I just have her executed for daring to look at human flesh?

Both in our 30s then, he went with his BIL, nephews (early 20s) and his son (then 18). He said he got caught up in the moment as the younger ones wanted to go. I was more angry he'd done something I'd asked him not to do rather than where he'd gone iyswim. Hence my tantrum and his very grovelling apology

level200

You have Shades of Grey why cant they have a lapdance? at least its not as graphic and detailed as that book

harshal99

I no longer have a sex life, as I gave up on relationships a few years ago. Added with the fact I don't do the friends with benefits type thing, or one night stands. Not my scene at all.

"With something like sex for instance I see no fun in watching some other bloke get his rocks off. I can see fun in me getting mine. I have a brain and an imagination. I may see or read something that gives me an idea. For instance in a few weeks time I'll be competing in an Ironman triathlon. I read about the event, but have no interest in reading about someone elses experience of completing one. I'd rather create my own."

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VestanPance

:rotfl:

If I ever decided I wanted just sex I could easily get it. Sorry, but you can add paying prostitutes for sex to my list of things on the not to do list. No doubt I'm a prude for that too. Call me old fashioned but I kind of like the idea that the other person wants to be with with me.

jayII

VestanPance wrote: »

:rotfl:

If I ever decided I wanted just sex I could easily get it. Sorry, but you can add paying prostitutes for sex to my list of things on the not to do list. No doubt I'm a prude for that too. Call me old fashioned but I kind of like the idea that the other person wants to be with with me.

There can't be many worse thoughts than the idea of paying someone for sexual favours or privileges. I'm no prude but I can't see the attraction at all.

As for one night stands, friends with benefits, swinging and so on, I like the idea of them but I suspect the reality would leave me cold. I think I'm extremely lucky that I've only ever been drawn to having sex with someone I'm in an exclusive emotional relatioinship with. A couple of my past partners had different ideas about the meaning of 'exclusive' but they were soon ex-partners.