Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

jayII

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

Oh dear is he still going? :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Have pm'd you my dear long time no speak! i think after today I may well be back with avengance (sp?)

PM received and replied to. :T :T

I'm having a naughty day off, I'm meant to be doing more purposeful stuff but I let myself get sidetracked.

BugglyB

Lancslass, have you dumped your boyfriend yet? Can't believe the 30th birthday thing.

Lancslass1982

He has come grovelling saying that he can't believe how much he has hurt me and that he feels awful about the situation. Apparently he thought well they had a stripper, I'll have a dance, but can see how they are different and why I'd be upset. He also says that he found it boring and tacky and felt guilty about it during and afterwards. I don't know....?! I think he's being honest....

BugglyB

And has he bought you expensive and lovely 30th birthday gifts?

shebrett

No way, I couldn't respect a man who looked at a woman that way and thought it was entertainment.

Funny, when I was younger I didn't get it, then I saw a stripper myself in a pub (bachelor party) and all of a sudden I realised it wasn't about the nudity, there was an atmosphere amongst the men watching which I can only describe as predatory .... it wasn't pleasant.

Lancslass1982

^(Under BugglyB) Hahaha!! Well that's on the same weekend as another stag do he's going to in September, so we'll see. I will be sunning myself for a week, in five star luxury, on a Spanish island, but I'm sure his weekend in Nottingham will be lovely!!:rotfl:

thatgirlsam

Lancslass1982 wrote: »

^(Under BugglyB) Hahaha!! Well that's on the same weekend as another stag do he's going to in September, so we'll see. I will be sunning myself for a week, in five star luxury, on a Spanish island, but I'm sure his weekend in Nottingham will be lovely!!:rotfl:

Just don't be looking at any men in speedo's ok?

Gloomendoom

thatgirlsam wrote: »

Just don't be looking at any men in speedo's ok?

Lancslass1982

Oh dear God, why is there not a puke smiley?! I'm afraid if there is a man wearing speedos, I will have to look. Although, I very much doubt the experience would be pleasant!

thatgirlsam

Ahhhh my eyes!!