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Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

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  • jayII
    jayII Posts: 40,693 Forumite
    Oh dear is he still going? :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Have pm'd you my dear long time no speak! i think after today I may well be back with avengance (sp?) :D

    PM received and replied to. :T :T

    I'm having a naughty day off, I'm meant to be doing more purposeful stuff but I let myself get sidetracked. :o
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  • BugglyB
    BugglyB Posts: 1,067 Forumite
    Lancslass, have you dumped your boyfriend yet? Can't believe the 30th birthday thing.
  • He has come grovelling saying that he can't believe how much he has hurt me and that he feels awful about the situation. Apparently he thought well they had a stripper, I'll have a dance, but can see how they are different and why I'd be upset. He also says that he found it boring and tacky and felt guilty about it during and afterwards. I don't know....?! I think he's being honest....
  • BugglyB
    BugglyB Posts: 1,067 Forumite
    And has he bought you expensive and lovely 30th birthday gifts?
  • shebrett
    shebrett Posts: 182 Forumite
    No way, I couldn't respect a man who looked at a woman that way and thought it was entertainment.

    Funny, when I was younger I didn't get it, then I saw a stripper myself in a pub (bachelor party) and all of a sudden I realised it wasn't about the nudity, there was an atmosphere amongst the men watching which I can only describe as predatory .... it wasn't pleasant.
  • ^(Under BugglyB) Hahaha!! Well that's on the same weekend as another stag do he's going to in September, so we'll see. I will be sunning myself for a week, in five star luxury, on a Spanish island, but I'm sure his weekend in Nottingham will be lovely!!:rotfl:
  • thatgirlsam
    thatgirlsam Posts: 10,451 Forumite
    ^(Under BugglyB) Hahaha!! Well that's on the same weekend as another stag do he's going to in September, so we'll see. I will be sunning myself for a week, in five star luxury, on a Spanish island, but I'm sure his weekend in Nottingham will be lovely!!:rotfl:

    Just don't be looking at any men in speedo's ok? :p
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  • Gloomendoom
    Gloomendoom Posts: 16,551 Forumite
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    Just don't be looking at any men in speedo's ok? :p

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  • Oh dear God, why is there not a puke smiley?! I'm afraid if there is a man wearing speedos, I will have to look. Although, I very much doubt the experience would be pleasant!
  • thatgirlsam
    thatgirlsam Posts: 10,451 Forumite
    Ahhhh my eyes!!
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