Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

dizsiebubba

unixgirluk wrote: »

A definite NO. Warned now hubby under no circumstances to go whilst on stag do, he did and told one of his friends over the phone not realising I was in the room. I went ballistic and threatened to call the wedding off. I calmed down and the wedding went ahead.

Aren't you worried he would do it again then? I would be if I had threatened calling off my wedding and then went back on my threat... he might see it as an empty threat?

Obviously i'm not saying you should have called off the wedding...just that using a threat and not going through with it usually results in my OH thinking 'oh well it can't be that bad then afterall'... I only threaten stuff I will actually do and have found that it since has had the desired effect

Tropez

raven83 wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl:no it hasn't. Oh don't start talking about ring's, you never know where that will lead :rotfl:

We had that discussion earlier, although I must say it wasn't made clear how well the bride to be did at the "throw a ring on a penis" game.

raven83

VestanPance wrote: »

Your badly thought out response to me saying not all men watch !!!!!!.

So you aren't familiar with Mary Palm and her 5 lovely daughters :rotfl:

PrincessPlaty

VestanPance wrote: »

Trying to wiggle out of your error now. How is posting a study that claims 100% of men of a certain age have viewed !!!!!!, which is not obviously the same percentage of those who are regular users in a study to determine attitudes towards women when linked with !!!!!! usage, not your all men watch !!!!!! defense?

I'm willing to say my wording could have been more clear, or more to the point ambiguous. I guess saying some men do not watch !!!!!! is more ambiguous than a lot of men don't.

Im not trying to wriggle out of anything, and I didn't make any errors. My point was that out of those that they surveyed they had all watched !!!!!!. At no point did I state or did they state that all men watch !!!!!!.
Out of the men that they surveyed they had all watched !!!!!!. Unless every man in the world was surveyed no statistic is going to be accurate.
You stated a lot of men don't watch !!!!!!, I asked you what you had done to back that up, which i notice you chose to ignore.

raven83

Tropez wrote: »

We had that discussion earlier, although I must say it wasn't made clear how well the bride to be did at the "throw a ring on a penis" game.

Oh god, i really should read through all the thread first

jayII

No, I wouldn't have a problem with my OH enjoying either a lap dance/stripper or a private dance.

I've no issues with !!!!!! either, he's entitled to some free choice, after all. :rotfl:

Uniscots97

dizsiebubba wrote: »

Aren't you worried he would do it again then? I would be if I had threatened calling off my wedding and then went back on my threat... he might see it as an empty threat?

Obviously i'm not saying you should have called off the wedding...just that using a threat and not going through with it usually results in my OH thinking 'oh well it can't be that bad then afterall'... I only threaten stuff I will actually do and have found that it since has had the desired effect

Honestly, no. I rarely lose my temper and (according to the friend that was there) I was akin to the Tazmanian devil. I am normally very quiet and reserved. . OH was 'terrified' to come home as he knew I'd go ballistic at him. When he did come home (SIL sent him home from hers) I gave him the silent treatment until he begged me to talk to him.

dizsiebubba

unixgirluk wrote: »

Honestly, no. I rarely lose my temper and (according to the friend that was there) I was akin to the Tazmanian devil. I am normally very quiet and reserved. . OH was 'terrified' to come home as he knew I'd go ballistic at him. When he did come home (SIL sent him home from hers) I gave him the silent treatment until he begged me to talk to him.

LOL oh ok I suppose if you have never lost it before and made threats you didn't follow through with then he wouldn't be so brave to take advantage again.

VestanPance

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

Im not trying to wriggle out of anything, and I didn't make any errors. My point was that out of those that they surveyed they had all watched !!!!!!. At no point did I state or did they state that all men watch !!!!!!.
Out of the men that they surveyed they had all watched !!!!!!. Unless every man in the world was surveyed no statistic is going to be accurate.
You stated a lot of men don't watch !!!!!!, I asked you what you had done to back that up, which i notice you chose to ignore.

No I didn't ignore it, I used my knowledge of myself and others. You do get confused with that body of work of the data reading the participant having ever watched !!!!!! and being a regular !!!!!! watcher. You clearly don't understand academic research, the protocols involved or how to derive data from it or else you wouldn't be linking to a sensationalist newspaper headline that has no understand of the data but only seeks sales.

You claim that you never say all men watch !!!!!!, while pushing the concept that all men watch !!!!!!. So what version is it?

raven83

Me and the OH both like to watch !!!!!!, sometimes we watch it together, sometimes we watch it on our own. I've never had a problem with any partner of mine watching it, i guess though it would become an issue if they preferred to watch !!!!!! rather than have sex with me, but luckily that hasn't happened yet.