Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

thatgirlsam

janninew wrote: »

Its the quiet ones you want to watch, the ones who are shouting from the rooftops how much they get, how much !!!!!! they watch etc just seem to want to shock!

How about the people shouting about how they don't watch !!!!!!? What are they up to??

PrincessPlaty

janninew wrote: »

Its the quiet ones you want to watch, the ones who are shouting from the rooftops how much they get, how much !!!!!! they watch etc just seem to want to shock!

Not at all its called being sarcastic!

thatgirlsam

Torry_Quine wrote: »

I have obviously read books which have sexual content but often feel very uncomfortable and try to avoid as it can be very voyeuristic.

I find this interesting

Torry do you find sex dirty and wrong?

I'm prying here, don't answer if it makes you uncomfortable

janninew

thatgirlsam wrote: »

How about the people shouting about how they don't watch !!!!!!? What are they up to??

I do believe that there are some people who don't enjoy or watch !!!!!! (not many but some!) and I think they don't understand the turn on that !!!!!! can give other people and that it can be part of a healthy relationship.

Different strokes for different folk!

Torry_Quine

thatgirlsam wrote: »

I find this interesting

Torry do you find sex dirty and wrong?

I'm prying here, don't answer if it makes you uncomfortable

I think sex is beautiful and the most amazing gift you can give someone. I just think it's a private thing that is best kept that way between the couple concerned. Some authors can write it well but many just doesn't feel right to me.

thatgirlsam

Torry_Quine wrote: »

I think sex is beautiful and the most amazing gift you can give someone. I just think it's a private thing that is best kept that way between the couple concerned. Some authors can write it well but many just doesn't feel right to me.

Fair play. I do think love is one of the sexiest things ever, if that makes sense!

But I also think that people who enjoy varied sex lives and like different stuff are equally as healthy

thatgirlsam

janninew wrote: »

I do believe that there are some people who don't enjoy or watch !!!!!! (not many but some!) and I think they don't understand the turn on that !!!!!! can give other people and that it can be part of a healthy relationship.

Different strokes for different folk!

:rotfl:

Don't talk about stroking! You will offend some MSE members

Lotus-eater

thatgirlsam wrote: »

I'd be interested to know how many women who don't like their man watching p0rn, or heaven forbid thinking of other women naked, have been rabidly reading 50 Shades of Grey!!

Torry_Quine wrote: »

Not a book I've read or have any interest in now that I now what it's about.

Somehow I'm not surprised.

VestanPance

thatgirlsam wrote: »

Most do.

Are you saying that most men do not?

Cue you saying that you don't, therefore most men don't

I've never argued that most men don't, but I also know that not all men do. There is a difference between most and all.

VestanPance

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

Go out on the high street and did a survey did you? How do you know that?

Slightly outdated but none of the less

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/relationships/6709646/All-men-watch-!!!!!!-scientists-find.html

Your badly thought out response to me saying not all men watch !!!!!!.