Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

peachyprice

Depends on the circumstances.

No to a private dance under any circumstances.
No to going to a strip club on a regular basis
No to seeing going to a strip club the same as going to the pub
Yes, going to a club if it's a stag do or other similar rare lads night out occasion

candygirl

I wouldn't be happy, and he wouldn't be happy if I went to see a male stripper:)

geri1965_2

I wouldn't be happy about either. Luckily we have the same views on the issue (although I am more vocal about it).

poorly_scammo

It's OK by me because a) we've been together and b) he has only been alone once or twice.

If he was going every weekend I'd be suspicious but at the clubs we've been to nothing happens in terms of touching.

It's case of horses for courses. If you're upset about it OP then you need to talk to him about it. In that sense it doesn't matter what I or anyone else thinks.

Torry_Quine

No from me as well

geri1965_2

runningwoman wrote: »

Wouldn't bother me. My body image is pretty darn good, so if my bloke wanted to go that would be his call, his money, not a problem.

You appear to be suggesting that those of us who do have a problem with it do so because we are not happy with our own body image.

Maybe we think they are tacky, or we do not like men who view women as mere sex objects who can be bought.

freyasmum

Poppy9 wrote: »

I'm with little pinky. Going to the club is fine but not having a private dance unless it was for something like his stag night or even a big birthday and organised by friends for a laugh.

I agree with this.

But then my views on watching !!!!!! are apparently different to most other women too.

starrybee

I wouldn't mind him going if he was with a big group of friends and it was for a stag night or something like that, but I wouldn't want him going regularly and certainly never by himself.

But a private dance is always a big no, that's taking the whole thing too far.

TeamLowe

Wouldnt bother me, didnt bother me when he went for his stag do

I just wouldn't see it as a threat/disrespectful as I suppose I just consider it 3d !!!!!!, he's not allowed to touch her and she definitely isn't doing it because she likes him so it has no bearing on my relationship really.

Unless he was going like, every week which would make me suspicios that he'd got to know a particular one I suppose

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poorly_scammo

runningwoman wrote: »

Wouldn't bother me. My body image is pretty darn good, so if my bloke wanted to go that would be his call, his money, not a problem.

My body image isn't good but I don't mind him going because the majority aren't brothels and nothing happens.

I got more aroused than he did. She was lovely and OH has said in the past that if I didn't want him to go, he wouldn't.

Like I said before it's about individual respect within a relationship.