Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

PrincessPlaty

VestanPance wrote: »

The difference is if you want to see an attractive woman take a walk down any town or city high street. You really don't need to pay to go to a club to find the lost world of attractive women.

In fact I'd argue that you'll see far better looking women going about their their day to day lives than you'd ever see in one of those places.

Have you ever been to a strip/lap dancing club?

Lotus-eater

VestanPance wrote: »

In fact I'd argue that you'll see far better looking women going about their their day to day lives than you'd ever see in one of those places.

I'd agree and much more attractive wearing clothes as well. And free, much more MSE

mumoftwins

Judi wrote: »

Lapdancing, pole dancing..... i should only imagine it would 'work' if your attracted to the woman doing it in the first place.

I don't think they look at the faces:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Lotus-eater

mumoftwins wrote: »

I don't think they look at the faces:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Of course they do

VestanPance

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

Have you ever been to a strip/lap dancing club?

At Stags yes, and they are awful places. I have no respect for anyone that strips for money, no matter how educated they are.

Lotus-eater

VestanPance wrote: »

At Stags yes, and they are awful places. I have no respect for anyone that strips for money, no matter how educated they are.

Why on earth would you have no respect? Would it be better if they stripped for free?

VestanPance

thatgirlsam wrote: »

That's not really a difference though is it?

I agree that you would see equally attractive women walking down the high street. Lap dancers etc also go shopping too!

I think this is the point. If your guy can look at attractive women anywhere/everywhere, then why is it so wrong to do so within this type of club?

The point being you don't need to seek out that type of place to find very attractive women. The streets are paved with attractive women. They are on your train commute, the shop, your work (well not my work), just walking by on the street.

To go to a strip club is seeking more than just a look at an attractive women. It's seeking some for of titillation. I'd say any guy doing that while in a relationship has issues.

thatgirlsam

VestanPance wrote: »

At Stags yes, and they are awful places. I have no respect for anyone that strips for money, no matter how educated they are.

That's your prerogitive.

What if a guy sees an attractive girl in the high street and imagines her naked? Would that be wrong too?

thatgirlsam

VestanPance wrote: »

The point being you don't need to seek out that type of place to find very attractive women. The streets are paved with attractive women. They are on your train commute, the shop, your work (well not my work), just walking by on the street.

To go to a strip club is seeking more than just a look at an attractive women. It's seeking some for of titillation. I'd say any guy doing that while in a relationship has issues.

And looking at attractive girls isn't for titillation sometimes?

So what if a man imagines a nice looking girl naked? Have you never done that?

VestanPance

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Why on earth would you have no respect? Would it be better if they stripped for free?

They've chosen that life purely for monetary gain. I don't respect that choice. I'd respect them if they used their brain, not their body.

In the same way I don't have respect for people that sign up for the military knowing they will be deployed to kill or work in the machine that will kill based on Government policy.