Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

weepingtree

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Oh, some people on here just think they know everything about everything and their view must be right. Black and white.

Hahahaha I couldn't agree more I joined up a few months ago and got a good telling off by quite a few for my views on something.

Thing was as you said not everything is black and white and sometimes some people should just for a moment try and really put themselves in someone else's shoes before they comment.

My treatment on here was quite harsh, and really put me off posting and or replying on any topic, so I lurked in the background for a while and over this time have watched people getting strips torn off of them when all they are asking for is what it seems to me is help and advice and practical solutions for problems They may have.

But I have decided to grow a pair and come back on here. And stand up for myself no matter what :T
My view on this is I would be annoyed if my partner had a private lap dance, if he feels he needs one, I am more than capable of giving him one and he would only need to ask.

Our intimate relationship is exclusive to each other. Its as simple as that. A lap dance is intimate and in the scope of our relationship intimacy should be with me alone.

I can only imagine his reaction if I had been out for the evening and when I got home said " oh baby by the way, while I was out at my friends house having a girly wine night, her mate Carl came round and I was a bit tipsy so I stripped down to my underwear and gave him a lapdance you know boobs in his face the works, methinks I would be in a bit of bother :eek:

VestanPance

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

So the single mums that I know that are strippers, would you rather they claimed income support and child tax credit and stay at home during the day to look after the little ones?
Or would you rather they were at home during the day looking after their little ones and then going out to work at night when they are asleep to support herself and her family?

Morals and ethics you were saying?

Yes, I'd rather they signed on than stripped. I fully support and believe in the welfare state.

Lotus-eater

thatgirlsam wrote: »

That's very judgemental.

Sad? I think it's sad that people don't accept that other people wish to lead different lives. And find different ways to fulfill a healthy sex life. Everyone's got a kink you know!

But I totally accept that others won't feel the same as me

Veston hasn't got any kinks, he's perfect.

PrincessPlaty

VestanPance wrote: »

Yes, I'd rather they signed on than stripped. I fully support and believe in the welfare state.

So you don't support the armed forces and you fully support the welfare state.

Seriously I don't even see the point in continuing to debate this with you.

You quote morals and ethics to me, I think you may want to raise your morals and reconsider your ethics.

thatgirlsam

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Veston hasn't got any kinks, he's perfect.

That sounds rather imperfect to me!

I'll take a man with kinks, thanks

thatgirlsam

I'd be interested to know how many women who don't like their man watching p0rn, or heaven forbid thinking of other women naked, have been rabidly reading 50 Shades of Grey!!

PrincessPlaty

thatgirlsam wrote: »

I'd be interested to know how many women who don't like their man watching p0rn, or heaven forbid thinking of other women naked, have been rabidly reading 50 Shades of Grey!!

I thought that earlier :rotfl:

Womens version of a stripper - 50 shades of grey.

Although that is probably wrong and immoral too :rotfl:

Missli

Mine would not pay for something he could get for nothing. Hypothetically speaking I wouldn't like it, purely for the reason we do things together. So I'd have to come, or not. :rotfl:

We'd much rather spend the money on a nice meal out, with plenty of booze! :j

shellsuit

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

Yes of course but it happens with most styles of lighting its just the effect that it has unless you are using natural sunlight with a reflector, you won't get a much different effect.

Do i? Dare i ask why :rotfl:

Nooo, it's not a bad thing, it's just you are the exact spit of her and if I didn't know you weren't her, I'd think you were her, if that makes sense!

thatgirlsam wrote: »

That's very judgemental.

Sad? I think it's sad that people don't accept that other people wish to lead different lives. And find different ways to fulfill a healthy sex life. Everyone's got a kink you know!

But I totally accept that others won't feel the same as me

You don't though, you don't believe that there are men who don't look at !!!!!!.

And not everyone has a kink, I don't have one and hubby doesn't have one.

VestanPance

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

So you don't support the armed forces and you fully support the welfare state.

Seriously I don't even see the point in continuing to debate this with you.

You quote morals and ethics to me, I think you may want to raise your morals and reconsider your ethics.

Yes I fully support looking after the poor, ill and those that require help in tough times, while not supporting murder based on government lies and propaganda.