Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

Lotus-eater

VestanPance wrote: »

No I just chose not to enter another relationship. It's simple logic. I no longer trust anyone enough to have a relationship, so there is no logic in starting one. Once I decide to do something I commit to it.

I've never ever been interested in one night stands or anything of that sort. Contrary to all reports men are not controlled by their penis.

Nothing to do with being controlled by your penis, it's to do with having a libido. You haven't got one.

kjmtidea

I would have no problem with my partner going to a lap dancing club or having a private dance. If he was going every week then it might be a little different!

raven83

VestanPance wrote: »

No I just chose not to enter another relationship. It's simple logic. I no longer trust anyone enough to have a relationship, so there is no logic in starting one. Once I decide to do something I commit to it.

I've never ever been interested in one night stands or anything of that sort. Contrary to all reports men are not controlled by their penis.

So don't you ever masterbate then?

Skinto_7

raven83 wrote: »

So don't you ever masterbate then?

Any answer other than YES is a lie :rotfl:

raven83

OP you should think yourself lucky, the lap dancing club here offers "extras" from anything from a "massage" to full on sex!

raven83

Skinto_7 wrote: »

Any answer other than YES is a lie :rotfl:

I agree, anyone that says they don't ever must be kidding themselves, i am sure even the queen does it :eek::rotfl:

Tropez

raven83 wrote: »

I agree, anyone that says they don't ever must be kidding themselves, i am sure even the queen does it :eek::rotfl:

Ugh, did you have to? :eek:

That's me put off the idea for a few weeks.

Ames

adouglasmhor wrote: »

Many years ago the younger adouglasmhor was paying his way through university by working as a doorman, in one hotel I worked at they had hen nights with male stripper troupes - I was groped (on one occasion so hard my tackle was black and blue), propositioned, had women come up to me in shops who had seen me at work and try to chat me up. If there is no real turn on why was an ugly big lad like me getting so much attention?

Think you answered your own question there!

As for the researc quoted I don't believe it for one second. 20 year olds not in a relationship watching !!!!!! for an average of 40 minutes? 4 minutes, more like.

Kiboko

balletshoes wrote: »

I don't think anyone here is talking about a bloke who gets private dances regularly instead of spending time with his OH - if its a regular occurrance then I'd agree thats a limited bloke.

But it was once wasn't it, in this case? So maybe he just wanted to see what it was like, once? That would be him expanding his life experience/views, not limiting them, yes?

Having been following the thread, this is what I have been shouting at the screen and he told her, if she feels that means they are incompatible then fine, but on the basis of the OP's post it doesn't sound like he's obsessed by lap dancing.

Skinto_7

raven83 wrote: »

I agree, anyone that says they don't ever must be kidding themselves, i am sure even the queen does it :eek::rotfl:

haha a wee jubilee treat for herself :rotfl: