My boyfriend said "Yes.I'll marry you" on facebook...

Oldernotwiser

Bloomin_Freezing2 wrote: »

Why were you not allowed to visit him on holiday? Might you catch him out? I find it very hard to believe that two people who both class the other as 'the one' would tell the other they were 'not allowed' to visit when on a near by holiday..

I could be wrong but I assumed that, as the OP is only 17, it was his or her parents who didn't allow a visit.

SueC_2

Bloomin_Freezing2 wrote: »

Why were you not allowed to visit him on holiday? Might you catch him out? I find it very hard to believe that two people who both class the other as 'the one' would tell the other they were 'not allowed' to visit when on a near by holiday.

Has he cheated on you on the past, is that what your forgave him for?

Sounds to me like he's keeping you dangling whilst having a bit on the side as and when it suits, I'm sorry to say.

I have been there, so much 'in love' in my teens, looking back it was nothing of the sort. I had boyfriends when I was younger telling me they'd marry me after only a few weeks of dating, I'm no longer with any of them so obviously it would've been a stupid thing to follow through with that.

You should really try to make friends, if you boyfriend does leave you for someone else you are going to be very lonely.

The lad's 16, I would imagine he's on holiday with his parents, who quite possibly don't want anyone else gate-crashing their family holiday.

clearing_out_my_pockets

To put another spin on things......

I was seeing a boy from the age of 16 through to 18. When we were both 17 he said to me "I'll marry you one day". He went as far as to offer me the ring he always wears as a temporary engagement ring. Although I loved him, I said no. I thought we were too immature and should live a bit first. At 18 he got a job and I went to uni. We started seeing other people, but stayed in touch and met up fairly regularly over the years. I'm married to him now and in my head I keep asking myself "what if.....?"

scheming_gypsy

Charley.christian wrote: »

so anyway, I was having a casual conversation with my boyfriend & he said "Yes.I'll marry you" I never even asked him and yes, it was on facebook.

sounds like he was having more than one conversation at the same time.

Charley.christian

vroombroom wrote: »

:Da hug? is that what kids re calling it nowadays

My boyfriend doesn't ask for a lot ^_^

Charley.christian

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

I could be wrong but I assumed that, as the OP is only 17, it was his or her parents who didn't allow a visit.

his mum doesn't like me too much because i have a nose ring & baby ear stretchers. I'm really nice to her & i do her housework & just spend time with her.... another reason could be that she feels like im taking her son away from her and that me and him kinda... had sex.
but we were virgins and both agreed to it ...

I'm not allowed to visit because "im not family" which is weird because she always refers to me as her daughter. i understand that she wants family time though.


um a girl mate who he was looking out for gave him a BJ in school toilets, I asked him if it was true and he said no, then a month later he said its true. I got so mad but you should have seen how angry he was at himself for not telling me the truth, but i know the girl and she does it all the time to other girls bfs....

JC9297

Charley.christian wrote: »

um a girl mate who he was looking out for gave him a BJ in school toilets, I asked him if it was true and he said no, then a month later he said its true. I got so mad but you should have seen how angry he was at himself for not telling me the truth, but i know the girl and she does it all the time to other girls bfs....

Only if other girls' boyfriends let her!

IphoneBuyer

Wow, I feel old.
Proposal or non proposal on Facebook? What is the world coming to?
My advice, Enjoy your relationship if it happens in 5 years time good luck to you, but you have so much to experiment with, girls holidays, clubbing, pubbing, a whole new world that neither of you have explored. In effect you are in a bubble at the moment but as soon as you get out there and see other stuff then you might change your mind, and so might he. In my experince this is what usually happens, I wish you luck though.

IphoneBuyer

Charley.christian wrote: »

um a girl mate who he was looking out for gave him a BJ in school toilets, I asked him if it was true and he said no, then a month later he said its true. I got so mad but you should have seen how angry he was at himself for not telling me the truth, but i know the girl and she does it all the time to other girls bfs....

So I just posted above, but I think this answers its own question, he obviously wants to experiment more. I bet he was really andry knowing he got head, fuming infact, I can imagine how red faced he was.

Charley.christian

IphoneBuyer wrote: »

So I just posted above, but I think this answers its own question, he obviously wants to experiment more. I bet he was really andry knowing he got head, fuming infact, I can imagine how red faced he was.

...he never wanted it. Well he wanted it from me,
but not her. anyway - i've put that behind me. its done enough hurt to me & him. I just want to put that behind me & focus on a brand new life.